Badd Kitty Club
Swing / lifestyle clubFredonia, NY
Women-run members club in Western NY - 11 playrooms, hot tub, pole, dance floor, BYOB; Saturdays.
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Swing clubs: BYOB-friendly
This topic hub focuses on BYOB-friendly across our catalog. Tags are inferred from how venues describe themselves - BYOB, on-premise play, membership models, and who is welcome at the door. This directory slice lists 60 clubs that match your filters - on-premise venues, BYOB clubs, and members-only spaces.
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Matching clubs
Blue Moon Social
Swing / lifestyle clubCorrales, NM
Private Corrales-area members social - 21+, BYOB, themed RSVP nights; address after Orientation.
Caligula New York
Swing / lifestyle clubAstoria, NY
Long-running NYC-area on-premise club - BYOB, dance floor, playrooms, buffet; Thu-Sun.
Checkmate NYC
Swing / lifestyle clubNew York, NY
Exclusive Manhattan members club - application and photo approval; no single men; strict dress code.
Choice Social Club
Swing / lifestyle clubCranston, RI
Large New England on-premise club (~8,000 sq ft), BYOB bar, private rooms, inclusive of swing and fetish communities.
Club Crave OKC
Swing / lifestyle clubOklahoma City, OK
Oklahoma premier lifestyle club - 2nd & 4th Friday parties.
Club Eden DFW
Swing / lifestyle clubEuless, TX
12,000 sq ft DFW Eden chain - dance floor, playrooms, theme nights.
Club Eden OKC
Swing / lifestyle clubOklahoma City, OK
9,000 sq ft Eden chain location - dance floor, playrooms, theme parties.
Club Eden San Antonio
Swing / lifestyle clubSan Antonio, TX
11,000 sq ft Eden chain - same ownership as DFW and OKC.
Club Encounters
Swing / lifestyle clubPhoenix, AZ
Phoenix on-premise social club since 1996 - open 7 nights, dance floor, six playrooms, juice bar; no alcohol sold (AZ law).
Club FA (Freedom Acres)
Swing / lifestyle clubSan Bernardino, CA
Large on-premise swing club - 13,000+ sq ft, Wed-Sun, BYOB, buffet.
Club G (Des Moines)
Swing / lifestyle clubDes Moines, IA
6,500 sq ft members-only on-premise club - verification required.
Club Joi
Swing / lifestyle clubLos Angeles, CA
Large LA swing club - 10,000+ sq ft, couples and single women, BYOB.
Club KISS
Swing / lifestyle clubSan Francisco, CA
SF on-premise party - pre-screened couples and single women, BYOB.
Club Sapphire
Swing / lifestyle clubTukwila, WA
~10,000 sq ft Seattle-area members club - LGBTQ+ welcoming.
Colette Austin
Swing / lifestyle clubAustin, TX
Colette chain Austin - opened 2018, Shrine BDSM events host.
Colette Dallas
Swing / lifestyle clubDallas, TX
Colette chain location - upscale on-premise club, BYOB setups.
Colette Houston
Swing / lifestyle clubHouston, TX
Colette chain Houston location.
Colette New Orleans
Swing / lifestyle clubNew Orleans, LA
Colette chain location - upscale on-premise club, BYOB, part of national brand.
Colette San Antonio
Swing / lifestyle clubSan Antonio, TX
Former Player's Club - colette franchise location.
Couples Cupid
Swing / lifestyle clubSeattle, WA
~14,000 sq ft venue - social side plus three floors of play space.
Desires Houston
Swing / lifestyle clubHouston, TX
Members-only dance club atmosphere - Modern Lifestyle.
DJ's Island
Swing / lifestyle clubBeaver Falls, PA
Established 2002 - 8,500 sq ft with 12 playrooms, buffet, BYOB bar, outdoor patio Fri/Sat.
Electricity Social Club
Swing / lifestyle clubProvidence, RI
Loft-style on-premise club in a historic mill building - BYOB, dance floor, playrooms, dungeon area, lockers.
Eros Knoxville
Swing / lifestyle clubKnoxville, TN
Knoxville BYOB members-only lifestyle club at 815 S Central St - themed Fri/Sat parties; new-member tour required by 11 p.m. first visit.
Forbidden Omaha
Swing / lifestyle clubOmaha, NE
Nebraska premium lifestyle club - registration and social verification required.
House of Black
Swing / lifestyle clubSan Diego, CA
3,500 sq ft lifestyle and kink events space - private membership.
Hush Lounge AZ
Swing / lifestyle clubPhoenix, AZ
Phoenix private lifestyle lounge - Wed and Sat nights, membership through Modern Lifestyle, no alcohol sold on site.
Ice Lounge
Swing / lifestyle clubHaysville, KS
Wichita-area private lifestyle club - dungeon space, themed Saturdays.
It's A Secret
Swing / lifestyle clubEdgewood, NM
Private venue expansion to 7,500 sq ft - BYOB, no phones on premises.
Karizma Social Club
Swing / lifestyle clubGlen Gardner, NJ
Central NJ ~7,800 sq ft venue - multiple playrooms, dance floor, BYOB bar; Fri/Sat late nights.
Leisure Time Club
Swing / lifestyle clubHartford, CT
Long-running Connecticut on-premise club - three floors of playrooms, couples and single women, BYOB Saturday nights.
Medusa's Playhouse
Swing / lifestyle clubWest Babylon, NY
Long Island on-premise club - DJ, dance floor, pole, bar, BDSM room, private and open play.
PK Social Club Reno
Swing / lifestyle clubReno, NV
Reno original lifestyle club - hot tub, DJ, upstairs play.
Playhouse DFW
Swing / lifestyle clubDallas, TX
7,000 sq ft members boutique venue - Playhouse brand (Las Vegas sibling).
PlayhouseLV
Swing / lifestyle clubLas Vegas, NV
6,000+ sq ft members venue - DJ, private rooms, no alcohol sold.
Quiet Encounters El Paso
Swing / lifestyle clubEl Paso, TX
El Paso on-premise social club - dress code, RV parking.
Red Rooster Las Vegas
Swing / lifestyle clubWhitney, NV
Established 1982 - 13,000 sq ft, pool, bars, live band.
Saints & Sinners Atlantic City
Swing / lifestyle clubAtlantic City, NJ
Massive NJ shore resort-style complex (~55,000 sq ft) with hotel, pools, multiple dance floors - Fri/Sat.
Scarlet Ranch
Swing / lifestyle clubLittleton, CO
Colorado flagship club - 18,000 sq ft on 5 acres, lodge, restaurant, pools.
Secret Pleasures
Swing / lifestyle clubEmmaus, PA
Lehigh Valley small on-premise club - SLS registration required; Wed afternoon and Fri/Sat nights.
Shadows Private Club 2.0
Swing / lifestyle clubHyattsville, MD
DC suburbs on-premise club - 501(c)(7) social club; dance floor, playrooms, bartenders for BYOB.
Sinner's Paradise
Swing / lifestyle clubPhiladelphia, PA
Members-only Philadelphia club - two hot tubs, BDSM room, dance floor, Wed and Fri/Sat hours.
Syn Tulsa
Swing / lifestyle clubTulsa, OK
Tulsa on-premise lifestyle club at 5553 S Peoria Ave - themed parties, BYOB patio, large weekend crowds.
Thad's Private Social Club
Swing / lifestyle clubSan Diego, CA
San Diego licensed swingers club - pool, jacuzzi, dance floor; invitation system.
The Club in OKC
Swing / lifestyle clubOklahoma City, OK
Private membership dance club - orientation required.
The Cottage Social Club
Swing / lifestyle clubOrrtanna, PA
Gettysburg-area three-floor on-premise club - buffet, jacuzzi, BYOB bars, overnight crash rooms.
The Green Door Las Vegas
Swing / lifestyle clubLas Vegas, NV
Vegas club that sells alcohol - themed rooms, long hours.
The Night Game Houston
Swing / lifestyle clubHouston, TX
Established 2019 - large dance floor, DJ, playrooms, female-owned.
The Pendulum Club North Houston
Swing / lifestyle clubHouston, TX
Woman-owned Houston lifestyle club - multiple play areas.
The Pleasure Garden Club
Swing / lifestyle clubPhiladelphia, PA
South Philly on-premise club behind Purple Orchid - two bars, large dance floor, themed rooms, no phones.
The Private Affair (TPA)
Swing / lifestyle clubPort Deposit, MD
Cecil County fenced property - ~25 themed rooms, pool, 20-person hot tub, dance floor, BYOB bar.
The SPOTT Kansas City
Swing / lifestyle clubKansas City, MO
Kansas City 8,000+ sq ft late-night lifestyle nightclub - pool, dance floor, cabanas; Saturday open until 5 a.m.
The Sweet Spot
Swing / lifestyle clubMesa, AZ
Mesa private membership association (PMA) - Fri/Sat themed nights, live music; address shared with members.
The Velvet Rope Portland
Swing / lifestyle clubPortland, OR
Portland legacy club since 1990 - ~10,000 sq ft, hot tubs, multiple levels.
The Warehouse Boise
Swing / lifestyle clubBoise, ID
Treasure Valley private lifestyle club - dungeon and house party areas, BYOB.
TJ's Lasting Impressions
Swing / lifestyle clubNewport, PA
Central PA large-scale club - Roman-style hot tub (80 seats), 12 party rooms, dance stage, BYOB bar.
Twist SF
Swing / lifestyle clubSan Francisco, CA
387 Bay St swing club near Fisherman's Wharf - Fri/Sat 10pm-4am, registration required, BYOB bar service.
Whispers Las Vegas
Swing / lifestyle clubLas Vegas, NV
Las Vegas on-premise pool parties for couples and single women only - RSVP via site, Kasidie, SDC, or Quiver.
Wicked Fun Club
Swing / lifestyle clubTerryville, CT
Newer on-premise club (opened late 2024) with 3,000+ sq ft, multiple playrooms, BYOB; single men Fridays only.
Upcoming events in this area
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Exploration Into Kink (EiK) 2026
Nov 6-8, 2026
Leather Reign 2026
Nov 13-15, 2026
Naughty Noel 2026
Dec 3-6, 2026
Charmed!
Jan 14-17, 2027
Forbidden Frostland 2027
Jan 15–18, 2027
Dark Odyssey Winter Fire
Feb 12-15, 2027
RGV Fetish & Kink Weekend 2027
Feb 18-21, 2027
Leather Leadership Conference 2027
February 26-28, 2027
South Plains Leatherfest 2027
Mar 18-21, 2027
Tethered Together 2027
Mar 19-22, 2027
THE Beltane
Apr 28-May 2, 2027
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Apr 29-May 2, 2027
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May 5-9, 2027
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