BDSM Events in Pennsylvania (2026 Guide)
Pennsylvania is home to one of the most active BDSM communities on the East Coast. From Philadelphia to Pittsburgh, there are regular kink events happening every week that range from casual meetups to large themed play parties.
About this region
Whether you are searching for a munch, a class, or a full weekend convention, Pennsylvania’s calendar mixes education, social connection, and play-forward programming. Use the listings below to plan ahead - dates and venues change, so check back often.
Upcoming listings below include Event, Social, Class, Play party, Play Party. Venues and dates change - bookmark this page if you are tracking the Pennsylvania scene over time.
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Tuesday Tease Party
2026-09-29
Emmaus, PA
HOT TUB KARAOKE
Sep 30 · 6:30 PM - 11:00 PM
Spring Grove, PA
T4T Rope Jam Philadelphia (& potluck)
Sep 30, 2026 · Wed · 7:00 PM
Philadelphia, PA
Lunchtime Play Party
2026-09-30
Emmaus, PA
Ladies Fantasy Fulfillment Party
2026-10-01
Emmaus, PA
ALT Night
Oct 2, 2026-Oct 3, 2026 · 8:00 PM-1:00 AM (Pittsburgh)
Pittsburgh, PA
Rainbowgasm by @Glittergasm
Oct 2, 2026 · Fri
Philadelphia, PA
It's Your Birthday Bash
2026-10-02
Orrtanna, PA
PLEASUREcation: Nightshade Edition
Fri, Oct 2, 2026 · 8:00 PM-Sat Oct 3 2:00 AM
Philadelphia, PA
12th YEAR ANNIVERSARY PARTY
Oct 2 · 7:00 PM - 2:00 AM
Spring Grove, PA
DVNC: Knotty Affair
Oct 3, 2026-Oct 4, 2026 · 9:00 PM-2:00 AM (Pittsburgh)
Pittsburgh, PA
Blushing Moon
Oct 3, 2026 · Sat
Philadelphia, PA
SLASHER FEST
Oct 3 · 7:00 PM - 2:00 AM
Spring Grove, PA
Membership Appreciation Night
2026-10-03
Newport, PA
Musical Laps Contest
2026-10-03
Orrtanna, PA
S&S NE Philly Welcomes Delco Degenerates
Oct 3, 2026 · Sat · 9:00 PM-Oct 4 3:00 AM
Philadelphia, PA
Pink Passion Play
2026-10-03
Beaver Falls, PA
Ladies Fantasy Fulfillment Party
2026-10-08
Emmaus, PA
Traffic Light Party at The Shop
Oct 9, 2026-Oct 10, 2026 · 8:00 PM-1:00 AM (Pittsburgh)
Pittsburgh, PA
Monthly Kink Night w/ YPG
Oct 9 · 7:00 PM - 2:00 AM
Spring Grove, PA
Interracial Night
2026-10-09
Orrtanna, PA
S&S NE Philly's Fishnet Friday's
Oct 9, 2026 · Fri · 9:00 PM-Oct 10 3:00 AM
Philadelphia, PA
Club Friction "Sexy Devil"
Oct 10, 2026 · Sat · 9:00 PM-Oct 11 3:00 AM
Philadelphia, PA
Witches and Warlocks
Oct 10 · 7:00 PM - 2:00 AM
Spring Grove, PA
DJs 24th Anniversary party
2026-10-10
Beaver Falls, PA
Couples and Single Ladies Party
2026-10-10
Newport, PA
Corsets & Stockings Night
2026-10-10
Orrtanna, PA
Hot Wife Party
2026-10-10
Emmaus, PA
Burlesque Night
Oct 10, 2026-Oct 11, 2026 · 9:00 PM-2:00 AM (Pittsburgh)
Pittsburgh, PA
October Poconos Parliament - Kinky Owloween
Oct 10, 2026 · Sat · 3:00 PM
Poconos, PA
Rope Bite Skill Share
Oct 11, 2026 · Sun · 2:00 PM-5:00 PM (Pittsburgh)
Pittsburgh, PA
Karaoke at The Nest (nerf gun fight welcome)
Oct 14, 2026 · Wed · 7:00 PM
Philadelphia, PA
Ladies Fantasy Fulfillment Party
2026-10-15
Emmaus, PA
Trancesylvania HypnoKink Skill Share
Oct 15, 2026 · Thu
Philadelphia, PA
Fresh Meat Friday
Oct 16 · 7:00 PM - 2:00 AM
Spring Grove, PA
Stockings and Heels Party
2026-10-16
Emmaus, PA
Karaoke & Singles Night
2026-10-16
Orrtanna, PA
Freaky Friday
Oct 16, 2026-Oct 17, 2026 · 8:00 PM-1:00 AM (Pittsburgh)
Pittsburgh, PA
NEPAH 2027 (Northeast Pet & Handler Weekend)
Oct 16-18, 2026
Philadelphia, PA
DEAD ZOMBIE APOCALYPSE
Oct 17 · 7:00 PM - 2:00 AM
Spring Grove, PA
Tempting and Toxic Green Glow Party
2026-10-17
Newport, PA
Naughty School Girl Party
2026-10-17
Emmaus, PA
Bra Auction - Breast Cancer Awareness
2026-10-17
Orrtanna, PA
Poker Run - Breast Cancer Awareness
2026-10-17
Orrtanna, PA
Cauldrons and Corsets
2026-10-17
Beaver Falls, PA
Social + Pool Party
Sun, Oct 18, 2026 · 3:00-6:00 PM
Reading, PA
T4T Rope Jam Philadelphia
Oct 19, 2026 · Mon
Philadelphia, PA
Ladies Fantasy Fulfillment Party
2026-10-22
Emmaus, PA
Twisted Fairy Tales
Oct 23 · 7:00 PM - 2:00 AM
Spring Grove, PA
Midnight Glogasm by @Glittergasm
Oct 23, 2026 · Fri
Philadelphia, PA
Halloween Party
2026-10-23
Orrtanna, PA
W-Horror Night
Oct 23, 2026-Oct 24, 2026 · 8:00 PM-1:00 AM (Pittsburgh)
Pittsburgh, PA
Bound by Desire s
2026-10-24
Beaver Falls, PA
20th Annual Hallowkink Costume Ball
Sat, Oct 24, 2026 · 8:00 PM-Sun Oct 25 1:00 AM
Philadelphia, PA
S&S NE Philly Welcomes John and Maria's Annual Halloween Extravaganza
Oct 24, 2026 · Sat · 9:00 PM-Oct 25 3:00 AM
Philadelphia, PA
Headless Headbangers Ball
Oct 24 · 7:00 PM - 2:00 AM
Spring Grove, PA
Circus of Seduction
2026-10-24
Newport, PA
Neon Glow Party
2026-10-24
Emmaus, PA
Halloween Party
2026-10-24
Orrtanna, PA
Sanctuary
Oct 24, 2026 · Sat
Philadelphia, PA
Flannel Fling
Oct 24, 2026-Oct 25, 2026 · 9:00 PM-2:00 AM (Pittsburgh)
Pittsburgh, PA
Owl Academy: The Intricacies of Power Play with FoxieLou
Oct 26, 2026 · Mon · 7:00 PM
Philadelphia, PA
Philly Ageplay Clubhouse - October Halloween Baby Rave!
Oct 29, 2026 · Thu · 6:30 PM
Philadelphia, PA
Ladies Fantasy Fulfillment Party
2026-10-29
Emmaus, PA
Sybian Night
2026-10-30
Orrtanna, PA
Vampire Bite Night
Oct 30 · 7:00 PM - 2:00 AM
Spring Grove, PA
Friday Halloween Party
2026-10-30
Beaver Falls, PA
Saturday October 31th Halloween Party
2026-10-31
Beaver Falls, PA
Halloween Party
2026-10-31
Newport, PA
Halloween Party
2026-10-31
Orrtanna, PA
HALLOWEEN BASH
Oct 31 · 7:00 PM - 2:00 AM
Spring Grove, PA
S&S Philly Welcomes Club Giggity
Oct 31, 2026 · Sat · 9:00 PM-Nov 1 3:00 AM
Philadelphia, PA
The Official Halloween Party
Oct 31, 2026-Nov 1, 2026 · 9:00 PM-2:00 AM (Pittsburgh)
Pittsburgh, PA
The Owls Nest Bagels, Bondage, Beatings PLAY PARTY
Nov 1, 2026 · Sun · 1:00 PM
Philadelphia, PA
Sports Jersey Night
Nov 6 · 7:00 PM - 2:00 AM
Spring Grove, PA
Glogasm by @Glittergasm
Nov 6, 2026 · Fri
Philadelphia, PA
SCI -FI Night
Nov 7 · 7:00 PM - 2:00 AM
Spring Grove, PA
Candyland Sweet Treats After Dark
2026-11-07
Beaver Falls, PA
Daisy Dukes and Cowboy Boots Party
2026-11-07
Emmaus, PA
Rope Bite Skill Share
Nov 8, 2026 · Sun · 2:00 PM-5:00 PM (Pittsburgh)
Pittsburgh, PA
The Art of Tease & Denial for All
Sun, Nov 8, 2026 · 3:00-6:00 PM
Reading, PA
Fresh Meat Friday
Nov 13 · 7:00 PM - 2:00 AM
Spring Grove, PA
POP'N TAGS
Nov 14 · 7:00 PM - 2:00 AM
Spring Grove, PA
S&S Philly Welcomes Ghosthost's Faire Play
Nov 14, 2026 · Sat · 9:00 PM-Nov 15 3:00 AM
Philadelphia, PA
Club Friction "SpanksGiving" Edition
Nov 14, 2026 · Sat · 9:00 PM-Nov 15 3:00 AM
Philadelphia, PA
Hot Wife Party
2026-11-14
Emmaus, PA
Neon Night and Member Appreciation Membership # 7501 - 9999
2026-11-14
Beaver Falls, PA
Social + Pool Party
Sun, Nov 15, 2026 · 3:00-6:00 PM
Reading, PA
Trancesylvania HypnoKink Skill Share
Nov 19, 2026 · Thu
Philadelphia, PA
Trashy Nascar
Nov 20 · 7:00 PM - 2:00 AM
Spring Grove, PA
Freaky Friday
Nov 20, 2026-Nov 21, 2026 · 8:00 PM-1:00 AM (Pittsburgh)
Pittsburgh, PA
Sanctuary
Nov 21, 2026 · Sat
Philadelphia, PA
HARVEST HOE-DOWN
Nov 21 · 7:00 PM - 2:00 AM
Spring Grove, PA
Naughty School Girl Party
2026-11-21
Emmaus, PA
Zodiac After Dark: Birthday Bash for October, November and December Birthdays
2026-11-21
Beaver Falls, PA
Monthly Kink Night w/ YPG
Nov 27 · 7:00 PM - 2:00 AM
Spring Grove, PA
GLOW INTO THE HOLIDAY
Nov 28 · 7:00 PM - 2:00 AM
Spring Grove, PA
SLUTSGIVING On Premise
Nov 28, 2026 · Sat · 9:00 PM-Nov 29 3:00 AM
Philadelphia, PA
Ladies in Mens White Shirt and Tie Night
2026-11-28
Beaver Falls, PA
Holiday Carnal Arts and Crafts Bazaar at The Nest
Nov 29, 2026 · Sun · 1:00 PM
Philadelphia, PA
Naughty Noel 2026
Dec 3-6, 2026
Gettysburg, PA
Traffic Light Party at The Shop
Dec 4, 2026-Dec 5, 2026 · 8:00 PM-1:00 AM (Pittsburgh)
Pittsburgh, PA
Naughty or Nice Holiday Lingerie and PJs
2026-12-05
Beaver Falls, PA
Sweet Treats & Dirty Beats
Dec 6, 2026 · Sun
Philadelphia, PA
The Art of Chastity & Keyholding for All
Sun, Dec 6, 2026 · 3:00-6:00 PM
Reading, PA
Stockings and Heels Party
2026-12-11
Emmaus, PA
S&S Philly Welcomes Ghosthost's Needful Flings Hail Santa
Dec 12, 2026 · Sat · 9:00 PM-Dec 13 3:00 AM
Philadelphia, PA
DJ's Christmas Party
2026-12-12
Beaver Falls, PA
Club Friction "Kinkmas" On Premise
Dec 12, 2026 · Sat · 9:00 PM-Dec 13 3:00 AM
Philadelphia, PA
Hot Wife Party
2026-12-12
Emmaus, PA
Social + Pool Party
Sun, Dec 13, 2026 · 3:00-6:00 PM
Reading, PA
Rope Bite Skill Share
Dec 13, 2026 · Sun · 2:00 PM-5:00 PM (Pittsburgh)
Pittsburgh, PA
Trancesylvania HypnoKink Skill Share
Dec 17, 2026 · Thu
Philadelphia, PA
Freaky Friday
Dec 18, 2026-Dec 19, 2026 · 8:00 PM-1:00 AM (Pittsburgh)
Pittsburgh, PA
Sanctuary Krampus
Dec 19, 2026 · Sat
Philadelphia, PA
Naughty School Girl Party
2026-12-19
Emmaus, PA
Sexy But Ugly Holiday Sweaters/Outfits
2026-12-19
Beaver Falls, PA
Last Saturday of 2026 Your Pick Party
2026-12-26
Beaver Falls, PA
New Years Eve Party
2026-12-31
Beaver Falls, PA
Dungeons & kink venues
PLEASUREcation Party
BDSM/Swinger PartyPhiladelphia, PA
BDSM/Swinger sex-positive dance and play party at Pleasure Garden Club, first Friday of each month. Doors 8pm. Couples $60, Single Females $40, Single Males $120. Dress to impress - fetish, leather, latex, club-wear, or theme.
Saints & Sinners
Swingers ClubPhiladelphia, PA
Philly's premier adult playground for swingers. "Rather run with the sinners than walk with the saints." Playrooms, lounge areas, dance floors. Membership: Single Females $20/yr, Couples $50/yr, Single Males $100/yr. Fri/Sat 9pm-3am.
The Aviary Philly
Kink ClubPhiladelphia, PA
The Aviary is Philadelphia's monthly fetish night - second Saturday of every month, 8pm-1am. 1315 Spruce St. $35 advance, $40 door. 18+. Front room, Newbie Room, Main Room, Playground, Aftercare Room. Proof of vaccination required.
The Korral
Private Members ClubSpring Grove, PA
The Korral is a private members-only, sex-positive club in Spring Grove, PA. Membership $50/year. Fri/Sat 7pm-2am. Monthly Kink Nights, heated pool, 18 themed rooms, BDSM hallway. Education-first, consent-mandatory.
The Nest
Creative Arts CollectivePhiladelphia, PA
The Nest blends creative arts and kink community in Fishtown, Philadelphia. This 4,800 sq. ft. ground-floor space near Fishtown hosts photography, mixed media, and performing arts workshops, rope shares, and social events - with free onsite parking and easy transit access.