BDSM Events in New York City (2026)
When people search for kink events near New York City, they usually want a tight read on what is actually happening soon - not a national dump of unrelated parties. This page filters upcoming listings tied to New York City and its immediate metro patterns.
About this region
You will see Event, Play party represented where data exists. If you are new, prioritize events that advertise orientation or newcomer language; if you are experienced, look for skill-specific intensives and member-driven play spaces.
Nearby dungeon and venue listings (where available) complement the event calendar so you can plan travel, parking, and accessibility with fewer surprises.
Calendar
Upcoming events
23 listings in this view
Sensual Seduction - Wet and Wild Wednesday
2026-09-30
New York, NY
Thursday Night at Checkmate
Oct 1, 2026 · Thu · 9:00 PM-2:00 AM (Manhattan)
New York, NY
Checkmate Saturday Night
Oct 3, 2026 · Sat · 9:00 PM-2:00 AM (Manhattan)
New York, NY
Thursday Night at Checkmate
Oct 8, 2026 · Thu · 9:00 PM-2:00 AM (Manhattan)
New York, NY
Checkmate Saturday Night
Oct 10, 2026 · Sat · 9:00 PM-2:00 AM (Manhattan)
New York, NY
Thursday Night at Checkmate
Oct 15, 2026 · Thu · 9:00 PM-2:00 AM (Manhattan)
New York, NY
Erotica Friday
Oct 16, 2026 · Fri · 9:00 PM-2:00 AM (Manhattan)
New York, NY
Checkmate Saturday Night
Oct 17, 2026 · Sat · 9:00 PM-2:00 AM (Manhattan)
New York, NY
Thursday Night at Checkmate
Oct 22, 2026 · Thu · 9:00 PM-2:00 AM (Manhattan)
New York, NY
Thursday Night at Checkmate
Oct 29, 2026 · Thu · 9:00 PM-2:00 AM (Manhattan)
New York, NY
Checkmate Halloween 2026
Oct 31, 2026 · Sat · 9:00 PM-2:00 AM (Manhattan)
New York, NY
Thursday Night at Checkmate
Nov 5, 2026 · Thu · 9:00 PM-2:00 AM (Manhattan)
New York, NY
Thursday Night at Checkmate
Nov 12, 2026 · Thu · 9:00 PM-2:00 AM (Manhattan)
New York, NY
Checkmate Saturday Night
Nov 14, 2026 · Sat · 9:00 PM-2:00 AM (Manhattan)
New York, NY
Thursday Night at Checkmate
Nov 19, 2026 · Thu · 9:00 PM-2:00 AM (Manhattan)
New York, NY
Erotica Friday
Nov 20, 2026 · Fri · 9:00 PM-2:00 AM (Manhattan)
New York, NY
Thursday Night at Checkmate
Nov 26, 2026 · Thu · 9:00 PM-2:00 AM (Manhattan)
New York, NY
Thursday Night at Checkmate
Dec 3, 2026 · Thu · 9:00 PM-2:00 AM (Manhattan)
New York, NY
Thursday Night at Checkmate
Dec 10, 2026 · Thu · 9:00 PM-2:00 AM (Manhattan)
New York, NY
Thursday Night at Checkmate
Dec 17, 2026 · Thu · 9:00 PM-2:00 AM (Manhattan)
New York, NY
Erotica Friday
Dec 18, 2026 · Fri · 9:00 PM-2:00 AM (Manhattan)
New York, NY
Thursday Night at Checkmate
Dec 24, 2026 · Thu · 9:00 PM-2:00 AM (Manhattan)
New York, NY
Thursday Night at Checkmate
Dec 31, 2026 · Thu · 9:00 PM-2:00 AM (Manhattan)
New York, NY
Dungeons & kink venues
The Eulenspiegel Society (TES)
Community OrganizationNew York, NY
Founded in 1971, TES is one of the oldest BDSM organizations in the US - munches, classes, workshops, and TES Fest in New Jersey.