Destinations
Dungeons, clubs, studios, venues, and community spaces.
These are the spaces where the scene actually happens - confirm access and house rules on each venue's official site before you go.
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Community-verified venues with active events
Phoenix, AZ
Phoenix APEX dungeon and community hub - Saturday parties, socials, and education on arizonapowerexchange.org. Membership required for most club nights; confirm door rules on the official site.
Baltimore, MD
Baltimore Playhouse has been Charm City's premier kink destination since 1997. 12,000 sq ft - the largest play space of its kind in the US. 3010 Washington Blvd. Alcohol-free, drug-free, 250-attendee cap. Kink First Contact (first Friday) welcomes newcomers without contributorship. 19+.
Seattle, WA
Seattle nonprofit sex-positive / kink community center (CSPC / Wet Spot). Classes, parties, and many virtual programs on thecspc.org - facility address shared with members and registrants.
West Hollywood, CA
West Hollywood dungeon and community space for classes, socials, and curated play parties. Calendar on 910weho.com/events.
Anchorage, AK
Anchorage-area BDSM and kink community with a private club space - membership paths, vetting, and recurring social and play programming described on the official site.
Troy, MI
Arcadia Collective operates The Mothership - a Detroit-area LGBTQ+ community hub with a stocked BDSM dungeon, rope education (Michigan Happy Knots), Deviations Detroit play parties, drag and charity events, and sober house rules.
Hudson Valley, NY
Welcome to The Ascend Hudson Valley Community - A nurturing space for consenting adults in the kink and alternative lifestyle community. We foster a risk-aware, consensual kink (RACK) community in the Hudson Valley.
Holyoke, MA
Western Massachusetts kink-positive retail, educational and event home—rope, kink, CNM, sexual health classes, munches, and community nights at 358 Dwight St. Public registration lives on boink-ed.com/event.
Washington, DC
Washington, D.C. BDSM education and social organization. Official calendar on br.org. Many in-person nights are at The Crucible.
Oakland, CA
Oakland Bay Area rental dungeon and photo-friendly studio - five themed rooms, booking requests, waivers, and ID requirements per public site copy (not a drop-in pro-domme house).
Tampa, FL
Deviance Tampa Bay is a 5,000+ sq ft community hub for kink, consent, and connection - open Friday and Saturday nights with membership, classes, and a well-equipped play space serving the Tampa Bay region.
Dallas, TX
Dallas-Fort Worth dungeon and event venue - orientations, rope labs, Pride nights, and ticketed local programming on Forbidden Tickets.
Winchester, VA
Private membership social club in Winchester, VA - about 2,100 sq ft luxe play space, vetting and meet-and-greets, $99 annual membership, SSC framework, and BYOB events per public site. Confirm current schedule before visiting.
Fort Lauderdale, FL
Fort Lauderdale fetish showroom and event producer - monthly Alter Ego dress-code nights plus Florida Fetish Weekend. Party calendar and tickets on fetishfactory.com / alteregoparty.com.
Chicago, IL
Chicago rope and shibari education collective - beginner through advanced classes, jams, and private lessons with published safety curriculum on heartlandkinbaku.com.
DFW / Euless area, TX
DFW member-based kink club on the Modern Lifestyle platform - VIP and Platinum tiers, RSVPs and ticketing for themed dungeon nights (rope, impact, littles, and more). The public calendar also lists lifestyle travel and resort promotions; read event copy before booking.
Reading area, PA
InnThrall is a private, sex-positive kinky B&B near Reading, PA - two luxury suites, Libertine Hall playspace, monthly socials, seasonal events, and 5-hour day/evening rentals. Established 2015; East Coast home since 2020.
Seattle, WA
Seattle nonprofit community dungeon and education hub on Capitol Hill - parties, classes, and socials on kinkcenter.org/calendar.
Chicago, IL
LRA Chicago is a volunteer-operated 501(c)(3) nonprofit with 2,500+ sq ft of dungeon space, a non-alcoholic social bar area, and regular public education events for adults 19+ exploring kink and relationships.
Washington, DC
Producer of the DC Fetish Ball and related Mid-Atlantic nightlife - multi-level venue programming with dungeon and dance floors.
San Francisco, CA
Long-running Bay Area sex-positive collective with member-facing sites for Mission Control programming - often overlapping with Oakland/Berkeley producers who book adjacent venues.
Detroit, MI
Oblige is a 7,000 sq ft rope, kink, and art space in Detroit’s Milwaukee Junction - classes, rope jams, Performance & Play parties, munches, and equipped dungeon areas with community-forward programming.
Cleveland, OH
OhioSMART has been Cleveland's longest-running BDSM organization since 1995. 501c(7) non-profit. 19+ to join. Beyond its private dungeon, the group hosts munches, educational workshops, and outdoor activities - a solid choice for Ohio and Great Lakes kinksters seeking a vetted, inclusive community.
Oklahoma City metro, OK
18+ private BDSM and power-exchange community in the Oklahoma City area with a member dungeon, mandatory vetting and membership paths, recurring play parties and midweek dungeon nights, Ticketleap registration, and published guest and non-discrimination policies.
San Francisco, CA
1310 Mission Street playspace and venue - classes, parties, and producer rentals in a queer-, women-, POC-, and disabled-owned small business framing. Check paradox-sf.com for membership, hours, and door policies.
Philadelphia, PA
BDSM/Swinger sex-positive dance and play party at Pleasure Garden Club, first Friday of each month. Doors 8pm. Couples $60, Single Females $40, Single Males $120. Dress to impress - fetish, leather, latex, club-wear, or theme.
Albuquerque, NM
Albuquerque member-focused private dungeon on Modern Lifestyle - parties, kink school, munches, and rope nights. Membership required before most on-site events.
Philadelphia, PA
Philly's premier adult playground for swingers. "Rather run with the sinners than walk with the saints." Playrooms, lounge areas, dance floors. Membership: Single Females $20/yr, Couples $50/yr, Single Males $100/yr. Fri/Sat 9pm-3am.
Portland, OR
Sanctuary is a Portland (PDX) private membership dungeon and event space - local parties, classes, and socials on pdxsanctuary.com/calendar/.
Sarasota, FL
Sarasota Dark Temple offers a trauma-informed sacred kink space for Florida's Gulf Coast. With workshops, classes, and a Conscious Restoration Process for conflict resolution, it stands out for those seeking self-growth and community in a judgment-free environment.
Austin, TX
Monthly Sunday fetish and kink party at colette Austin, 6:30pm to 1:00am. 18+ with ID, no alcohol, $25 at the door. The ticket includes a temporary colette membership.
San Francisco, CA
San Francisco SoMa turnkey kink venue - dungeon nights, house parties, and ticketed local programming on Forbidden Tickets.
Portland, OR
Portland rental kink studio - online booking for private scenes and small shoots in a fixed, equipped space (rental venue, not pro-domme session retail).
Indianapolis, IN
Indy-area kink venue hosting play parties, contests, and regional rope events - including Indy Rope Expo - with membership and guest-list practices described on the official site.
Tukwila, WA
Puget Sound member dungeon in Tukwila - parties, workshops, and rope socials on subspaceseattle.com.
Rochester, NY
The Aphrodite Group (TAG) is a private, woman-owned, members-only BDSM club in Rochester, NY since 2016. Sat 7pm-1am. Currently relocating - monthly socials continue. Vetting socials to join. Single $35, plans from $30/mo.
Philadelphia, PA
The Aviary is Philadelphia's monthly fetish night - second Saturday of every month, 8pm-1am. 1315 Spruce St. $35 advance, $40 door. 18+. Front room, Newbie Room, Main Room, Playground, Aftercare Room. Proof of vaccination required.
Chicago, IL
The Chicago Rose is a volunteer-run BDSM dungeon in Rogers Park - education nights, social and play weekends, consent-forward policies, and optional private rentals supporting a diverse Chicago kink community (18+).
Seattle, WA
Seattle-area bookable kink studios - The Nest and The Roost - marketed for private rentals and small gatherings with online scheduling (community rental model, not pro-domme retail).
Washington DC, DC
The Crucible is a members-only 501(c)7 private club at 412 V Street NE, Washington, DC. Membership is $50/year. Dungeon 101 is the usual first-Friday outreach night. Local play nights and classes - not a convention.
Denver, CO
Denver’s large member-based kink club - recurring parties, education, and a permanent play space with published rules and membership orientation (community venue, not a pro-domme house).
New York, NY
Founded in 1971, TES is one of the oldest BDSM organizations in the US - munches, classes, workshops, and TES Fest in New Jersey.
New Orleans, LA
Bookable, fully equipped BDSM dungeon for short and overnight visits at The Prive in New Orleans - appointment-based scheduling, class menu (rope, impact, tantra, and more), and amenities tied to the clothing-optional members club context.
Arundel County, MD
The Honey Pot ranks among Maryland's most welcoming BDSM dungeons for LGBTQ+ community members. This Arundel County venue prioritizes consent coaching, safer kink practices, and a Safe Harbor Policy - making it a standout choice for anyone exploring kink in the Baltimore-Washington corridor.
Spring Grove, PA
The Korral is a Private, Members Only adult entertainment club. A sex positive club that welcomes open minded people to come and have fun with other like-minded members. Membership: $50/year, nightly fees vary by event. Themed Parties every weekend, Kink nights once a month.
Gastonia, NC
The LoftNC, LLC is a BDSM dungeon and social club in Gastonia, NC (Charlotte metro). For over a decade it has offered education, recurring social events, and a member-focused play space built on responsibility, integrity, confidentiality, and respect.
Nashville, TN
The Mark by CPI is Nashville's kink community center - a Tennessee non-profit with 6,000 sq. ft. in South Nashville. Open Fri/Sat 8pm-2am. First-Friday Welcome Munch and weekly classes welcome newcomers; membership ($40/6mo) required for play parties. ADA accessible, consent-based.
Houston, TX
Woman-owned Houston on-premise lifestyle (swingers-forward) clubs with themed nightly parties, 21+ membership, BYOB, and multiple play areas. Not a BDSM dungeon; confirm kink-friendly or fetish nights on pendulum.club before you visit.
Aurora, CO
Aurora / Denver metro BDSM club on Modern Lifestyle - play parties, rope/fire classes, orientations, and themed nights. Membership path on rackroomdenver.com.
Florida Panhandle, FL
The Vulgarians - dungeon & educational gatherings: 250+ vetted members across North Florida and the Panhandle. Annual consent class & screening, in-person or Zoom vetting, dedicated on-site dungeon. Play parties, classes (shibari, fire, wax, blowgun), workshops & more.
Orlando, FL
The Woodshed is Orlando's members-only private club dedicated to educating and building community for alternative lifestyles. Open Friday and Saturday evenings on Milner Blvd, it offers workshops, events, education, and a well-equipped play space in a judgment-free environment.
Dover Plains, NY
Lifestyle America Social Club (LASC) Inc. is a federally recognized 501(c)(3) nonprofit. The_LODGE is their Hudson Valley flagship venue - an education-first space for classes, Essential Education, consent-driven events, and community across NY, NJ, PA, CT, and MA.
North Hollywood, CA
Los Angeles nonprofit kink education and community dungeon - classes, orientations, and member play nights on thresholdla.org/calendar.
San Francisco, CA
501(c)(3) leather, kink, and fetish education and social space on Folsom Street - calendar, rentals, and host expectations published on transform1060.org.
Des Moines & Omaha, IA
Consent-forward fetish play parties in Omaha, NE and Des Moines, IA - calendar and tickets on vortexparties.com.
Fredonia, NY
Women-run members club in Western NY - 11 playrooms, hot tub, pole, dance floor, BYOB; Saturdays.
Corrales, NM
Private Corrales-area members social - 21+, BYOB, themed RSVP nights; address after Orientation.
Pittsburgh, PA
Large Pittsburgh sex-positive nightclub (~15,000+ sq ft) - themed rooms, BDSM areas, Fri/Sat.
Astoria, NY
Long-running NYC-area on-premise club - BYOB, dance floor, playrooms, buffet; Thu-Sun.
New York, NY
Exclusive Manhattan members club - application and photo approval; no single men; strict dress code.
Cranston, RI
Large New England on-premise club (~8,000 sq ft), BYOB bar, private rooms, inclusive of swing and fetish communities.
Oklahoma City, OK
Oklahoma premier lifestyle club - 2nd & 4th Friday parties.
Euless, TX
12,000 sq ft DFW Eden chain - dance floor, playrooms, theme nights.
Oklahoma City, OK
9,000 sq ft Eden chain location - dance floor, playrooms, theme parties.
San Antonio, TX
11,000 sq ft Eden chain - same ownership as DFW and OKC.
Phoenix, AZ
Phoenix on-premise social club since 1996 - open 7 nights, dance floor, six playrooms, juice bar; no alcohol sold (AZ law).
San Bernardino, CA
Large on-premise swing club - 13,000+ sq ft, Wed-Sun, BYOB, buffet.
Des Moines, IA
6,500 sq ft members-only on-premise club - verification required.
Los Angeles, CA
Large LA swing club - 10,000+ sq ft, couples and single women, BYOB.
San Francisco, CA
SF on-premise party - pre-screened couples and single women, BYOB.
New York, NY
On-premise Manhattan swingers club - membership purchase online; also operates a Los Angeles location.
Portland, OR
Upscale 8,000 sq ft three-level Portland nightclub - bars, buffet, play spaces.
Tukwila, WA
~10,000 sq ft Seattle-area members club - LGBTQ+ welcoming.
Salisbury, MA
Members-only lifestyle nightclub off-premise (meet-and-greet) with dance floor, bars, and 15,000+ member network.
Austin, TX
Colette chain Austin - opened 2018, Shrine BDSM events host.
Dallas, TX
Colette chain location - upscale on-premise club, BYOB setups.
New Orleans, LA
Colette chain location - upscale on-premise club, BYOB, part of national brand.
San Antonio, TX
Former Player's Club - colette franchise location.
Seattle, WA
~14,000 sq ft venue - social side plus three floors of play space.
Houston, TX
Members-only dance club atmosphere - Modern Lifestyle.
Beaver Falls, PA
Established 2002 - 8,500 sq ft with 12 playrooms, buffet, BYOB bar, outdoor patio Fri/Sat.
Providence, RI
Loft-style on-premise club in a historic mill building - BYOB, dance floor, playrooms, dungeon area, lockers.
Knoxville, TN
Knoxville BYOB members-only lifestyle club at 815 S Central St - themed Fri/Sat parties; new-member tour required by 11 p.m. first visit.
Omaha, NE
Nebraska premium lifestyle club - registration and social verification required.
San Diego, CA
3,500 sq ft lifestyle and kink events space - private membership.
Phoenix, AZ
Phoenix private lifestyle lounge - Wed and Sat nights, membership through Modern Lifestyle, no alcohol sold on site.
Haysville, KS
Wichita-area private lifestyle club - dungeon space, themed Saturdays.
Edgewood, NM
Private venue expansion to 7,500 sq ft - BYOB, no phones on premises.
Glen Gardner, NJ
Central NJ ~7,800 sq ft venue - multiple playrooms, dance floor, BYOB bar; Fri/Sat late nights.
Hartford, CT
Long-running Connecticut on-premise club - three floors of playrooms, couples and single women, BYOB Saturday nights.
West Babylon, NY
Long Island on-premise club - DJ, dance floor, pole, bar, BDSM room, private and open play.
Reno, NV
Reno original lifestyle club - hot tub, DJ, upstairs play.
Dallas, TX
7,000 sq ft members boutique venue - Playhouse brand (Las Vegas sibling).
Las Vegas, NV
6,000+ sq ft members venue - DJ, private rooms, no alcohol sold.
San Francisco, CA
San Francisco adult nightclub at 220 Jones Street since 1996. Open Wednesday-Sunday. 18+. Membership optional. Official calendar on powerexchange.com.
El Paso, TX
El Paso on-premise social club - dress code, RV parking.
Whitney, NV
Established 1982 - 13,000 sq ft, pool, bars, live band.
Atlantic City, NJ
Massive NJ shore resort-style complex (~55,000 sq ft) with hotel, pools, multiple dance floors - Fri/Sat.
Littleton, CO
Colorado flagship club - 18,000 sq ft on 5 acres, lodge, restaurant, pools.
Emmaus, PA
Lehigh Valley small on-premise club - SLS registration required; Wed afternoon and Fri/Sat nights.
Hyattsville, MD
DC suburbs on-premise club - 501(c)(7) social club; dance floor, playrooms, bartenders for BYOB.
Philadelphia, PA
Members-only Philadelphia club - two hot tubs, BDSM room, dance floor, Wed and Fri/Sat hours.
Tulsa, OK
Tulsa on-premise lifestyle club at 5553 S Peoria Ave - themed parties, BYOB patio, large weekend crowds.
Liverpool, NY
Central NY lifestyle club - ticketing via SLS / Modern Lifestyle; verify permanent venue status.
Catonsville, MD
Catonsville on-premise lifestyle club. Friday 9pm-2am, Saturday 9pm-3am. Membership plus visit fees on tabulife.com.
San Diego, CA
San Diego licensed swingers club - pool, jacuzzi, dance floor; invitation system.
Oklahoma City, OK
Private membership dance club - orientation required.
Orrtanna, PA
Gettysburg-area three-floor on-premise club - buffet, jacuzzi, BYOB bars, overnight crash rooms.
New York, NY
Newer upscale Tribeca venue (~4,500 sq ft) - RSVP required; members-only swingers events.
Las Vegas, NV
Vegas club that sells alcohol - themed rooms, long hours.
Ronkonkoma, NY
Long Island lifestyle club - Fri & Sat late nights; verify relocation notices if any.
Brooklyn, NY
Brooklyn permanent venue for lifestyle events - bar, dance floor, BDSM room, open and private play.
Houston, TX
Established 2019 - large dance floor, DJ, playrooms, female-owned.
Houston, TX
Woman-owned Houston lifestyle club - multiple play areas.
Philadelphia, PA
South Philly on-premise club behind Purple Orchid - two bars, large dance floor, themed rooms, no phones.
Port Deposit, MD
Cecil County fenced property - ~25 themed rooms, pool, 20-person hot tub, dance floor, BYOB bar.
Kansas City, MO
Kansas City 8,000+ sq ft late-night lifestyle nightclub - pool, dance floor, cabanas; Saturday open until 5 a.m.
Mesa, AZ
Mesa private membership association (PMA) - Fri/Sat themed nights, live music; address shared with members.
Portland, OR
Portland legacy club since 1990 - ~10,000 sq ft, hot tubs, multiple levels.
Boise, ID
Treasure Valley private lifestyle club - dungeon and house party areas, BYOB.
Newport, PA
Central PA large-scale club - Roman-style hot tub (80 seats), 12 party rooms, dance stage, BYOB bar.
San Francisco, CA
387 Bay St swing club near Fisherman's Wharf - Fri/Sat 10pm-4am, registration required, BYOB bar service.
Las Vegas, NV
Las Vegas on-premise pool parties for couples and single women only - RSVP via site, Kasidie, SDC, or Quiver.
Terryville, CT
Newer on-premise club (opened late 2024) with 3,000+ sq ft, multiple playrooms, BYOB; single men Fridays only.
West Hollywood, CA
West Hollywood dungeon and community space for classes, socials, and curated play parties. Calendar on 910weho.com/events.
Holyoke, MA
Western Massachusetts kink-positive retail, educational and event home—rope, kink, CNM, sexual health classes, munches, and community nights at 358 Dwight St. Public registration lives on boink-ed.com/event.
Washington, DC
Washington, D.C. BDSM education and social organization. Official calendar on br.org. Many in-person nights are at The Crucible.
Corrales, NM
Private Corrales-area members social - 21+, BYOB, themed RSVP nights; address after Orientation.
Pittsburgh, PA
Large Pittsburgh sex-positive nightclub (~15,000+ sq ft) - themed rooms, BDSM areas, Fri/Sat.
Astoria, NY
Long-running NYC-area on-premise club - BYOB, dance floor, playrooms, buffet; Thu-Sun.
