Destinations
Dungeons, clubs, studios, venues, and community spaces.
These are the spaces where the scene actually happens — confirm access and house rules on each venue's official site before you go.
Cleveland, OH
OhioSMART has been Cleveland's longest-running BDSM organization since 1995. 501c(7) non-profit. 19+ to join. Beyond its private dungeon, the group hosts munches, educational workshops, and outdoor activities—a solid choice for Ohio and Great Lakes kinksters seeking a vetted, inclusive community.
San Francisco, CA
SF institution since 1996—multi-floor pansexual club, drug and alcohol free.
Nashville, TN
The Mark by CPI is Nashville's kink community center—a Tennessee non-profit with 6,000 sq. ft. in South Nashville. Open Fri/Sat 8pm–2am. First-Friday Welcome Munch and weekly classes welcome newcomers; membership ($40/6mo) required for play parties. ADA accessible, consent-based.
West Hollywood, CA
West Hollywood educational and community space for kink-positive classes, socials, and curated parties—910weho.com lists rules, parking, and event registration.
Anchorage, AK
Anchorage-area BDSM and kink community with a private club space—membership paths, vetting, and recurring social and play programming described on the official site.
Troy, MI
Arcadia Collective operates The Mothership—a Detroit-area LGBTQ+ community hub with a stocked BDSM dungeon, rope education (Michigan Happy Knots), Deviations Detroit play parties, drag and charity events, and sober house rules.
Phoenix, AZ
Phoenix’s long-running APEX home—orientations, dungeon parties, intensives, and vendor-style community events on arizonapowerexchange.org. Confirm membership tiers and door rules on the join page before your first visit.
Hudson Valley, NY
Welcome to The Ascend Hudson Valley Community - A nurturing space for consenting adults in the kink and alternative lifestyle community. We foster a risk-aware, consensual kink (RACK) community in the Hudson Valley.
Holyoke, MA
Western Massachusetts kink-positive retail and event home—rope parties, classes, and community nights at 358 Dwight St. Public registration and calendars live on boink-ed.com.
Baltimore, MD
Baltimore Playhouse has been Charm City's premier kink destination since 1997. 12,000 sq ft—the largest play space of its kind in the US. 3010 Washington Blvd. Alcohol-free, drug-free, 250-attendee cap. Kink First Contact (first Friday) welcomes newcomers without contributorship. 19+.
Washington, DC
Large DC-area BDSM education and social nonprofit—classes, munches, and play parties since 1988.
Oakland, CA
Oakland Bay Area rental dungeon and photo-friendly studio—five themed rooms, booking requests, waivers, and ID requirements per public site copy (not a drop-in pro-domme house).
Seattle, WA
Seattle’s long-running sex-positive nonprofit—classes, labs, member programs, and consent-forward community space with published codes of conduct and membership pathways.
Tampa, FL
Deviance Tampa Bay is a 5,000+ sq ft community hub for kink, consent, and connection—open Friday and Saturday nights with membership, classes, and a well-equipped play space serving the Tampa Bay region.
Dallas, TX
DFW-area adult dungeon and event venue with a public calendar of orientations, rope labs, Pride nights, recurring education tracks, and private rentals. Not the same operator as Infliction Hall—both serve the Metroplex with different ticketing and membership models.
Winchester, VA
Private membership social club in Winchester, VA—about 2,100 sq ft luxe play space, vetting and meet-and-greets, $99 annual membership, SSC framework, and BYOB events per public site. Confirm current schedule before visiting.
Fort Lauderdale, FL
South Florida fetish event producer—parties and the annual anniversary weekend serving the Florida kink and fetish scene.
Chicago, IL
Galleria Domain 2 (GD2) is a 501(c)(7) nonprofit private membership club in Chicago with 4,000+ sq ft of play space, social areas, and a library—open Friday through Sunday nights.
Chicago, IL
Chicago rope and shibari education collective—beginner through advanced classes, jams, and private lessons with published safety curriculum on heartlandkinbaku.com.
DFW / Euless area, TX
DFW member-based kink club on the Modern Lifestyle platform—VIP and Platinum tiers, RSVPs and ticketing for themed dungeon nights (rope, impact, littles, and more). The public calendar also lists lifestyle travel and resort promotions; read event copy before booking.
Reading area, PA
InnThrall is a private, sex-positive kinky B&B near Reading, PA—two luxury suites, Libertine Hall playspace, monthly socials, seasonal events, and 5-hour day/evening rentals. Established 2015; East Coast home since 2020.
Seattle, WA
Seattle nonprofit community dungeon and education hub—open houses, classes, and member programming framed as consent-forward public-benefit work.
Chicago, IL
LRA Chicago is a volunteer-operated 501(c)(3) nonprofit with 2,500+ sq ft of dungeon space, a non-alcoholic social bar area, and regular public education events for adults 19+ exploring kink and relationships.
Washington, DC
Producer of the DC Fetish Ball and related Mid-Atlantic nightlife—multi-level venue programming with dungeon and dance floors.
San Francisco, CA
Long-running Bay Area sex-positive collective with member-facing sites for Mission Control programming—often overlapping with Oakland/Berkeley producers who book adjacent venues.
Boston, MA
Regional leather and kink nonprofit serving New England—education, contests, and community gatherings. Not a brick-and-mortar dungeon; a hub for leather culture across the Northeast.
Detroit, MI
Oblige is a 7,000 sq ft rope, kink, and art space in Detroit’s Milwaukee Junction—classes, rope jams, Performance & Play parties, munches, and equipped dungeon areas with community-forward programming.
Oklahoma City metro, OK
18+ private BDSM and power-exchange community in the Oklahoma City area with a member dungeon, mandatory vetting and membership paths, recurring play parties and midweek dungeon nights, Ticketleap registration, and published guest and non-discrimination policies.
New York, NY
Long-running public BDSM play space in Manhattan with coed and men-only nights, equipment, and a street-accessible Chelsea location. Verify hours and policies on the venue website before visiting.
San Francisco, CA
1310 Mission Street playspace and venue—classes, parties, and producer rentals in a queer-, women-, POC-, and disabled-owned small business framing. Check paradox-sf.com for membership, hours, and door policies.
Philadelphia, PA
BDSM/Swinger sex-positive dance and play party at Pleasure Garden Club, first Friday of each month. Doors 8pm. Couples $60, Single Females $40, Single Males $120. Dress to impress—fetish, leather, latex, club-wear, or theme.
Albuquerque, NM
Albuquerque member-focused dungeon and social club—vetted access, recurring parties, and education with published conduct expectations on the official site.
Philadelphia, PA
Philly's premier adult playground for swingers. "Rather run with the sinners than walk with the saints." Playrooms, lounge areas, dance floors. Membership: Single Females $20/yr, Couples $50/yr, Single Males $100/yr. Fri/Sat 9pm–3am.
Portland, OR
Portland member-based dungeon and social club—orientation, parties, and education with vetting and published community standards on the official WordPress site.
Sarasota, FL
Sarasota Dark Temple offers a trauma-informed sacred kink space for Florida's Gulf Coast. With workshops, classes, and a Conscious Restoration Process for conflict resolution, it stands out for those seeking self-growth and community in a judgment-free environment.
Austin, TX
Austin monthly fetish and kink play parties blending dungeon and club energy—18+ with ID, Shrine waivers, and a no-cost temporary colette Club membership. Vendors, volunteers, and optional STI testing partnerships per official site.
St. Louis, MO
St. Louis 501(c)(3) Gateway Alternative Lifestyle Center—nonprofit framing for education and community support with membership and program links on stl3.com.
San Francisco, CA
AfterDark-affiliated turnkey San Francisco kink venue—equipped dungeon floor, social areas, and hosted ticketed nights (often listed on Forbidden Tickets and Plura). Marketed as an interim flagship while longer-term club plans continue.
Portland, OR
Portland rental kink studio—online booking for private scenes and small shoots in a fixed, equipped space (rental venue, not pro-domme session retail).
Indianapolis, IN
Indy-area kink venue hosting play parties, contests, and regional rope events—including Indy Rope Expo—with membership and guest-list practices described on the official site.
Tukwila, WA
Puget Sound member dungeon south of Seattle—parties, education, and a large equipped space with published membership and guest policies (community club model).
Cleveland, OH
The Academy of Fetish Arts is a large members-only playspace in Cleveland—6,500 sq ft with a main dungeon, themed rooms, social lounge, monitored parking, and regular Saturday parties and education for ages 19+.
Rochester, NY
The Aphrodite Group (TAG) is a private, woman-owned, members-only BDSM club in Rochester, NY since 2016. Sat 7pm–1am. Currently relocating—monthly socials continue. Vetting socials to join. Single $35, plans from $30/mo.
Philadelphia, PA
The Aviary is Philadelphia's monthly fetish night—second Saturday of every month, 8pm–1am. 1315 Spruce St. $35 advance, $40 door. 18+. Front room, Newbie Room, Main Room, Playground, Aftercare Room. Proof of vaccination required.
Chicago, IL
The Chicago Rose is a volunteer-run BDSM dungeon in Rogers Park—education nights, social and play weekends, consent-forward policies, and optional private rentals supporting a diverse Chicago kink community (18+).
Seattle, WA
Seattle-area bookable kink studios—The Nest and The Roost—marketed for private rentals and small gatherings with online scheduling (community rental model, not pro-domme retail).
Washington DC, DC
The Crucible is a 501(c)7 members-only, non-profit private social club at 412 V Street NE, Washington DC. Membership $40/year. Monthly Dungeon 101 outreach (first Friday)—no membership required. 6,000 sq ft play space.
Denver, CO
Denver’s large member-based kink club—recurring parties, education, and a permanent play space with published rules and membership orientation (community venue, not a pro-domme house).
Connecticut, CT
The Emporium’s Kink Haven offers BDSM 101 and fetish education, munches, and play parties at The Studio—a Connecticut-based community space centered on safety, education, consent, and diversity.
New York, NY
Founded in 1971, TES is one of the oldest BDSM organizations in the US—munches, classes, workshops, and TES Fest in New Jersey.
New Orleans, LA
Bookable, fully equipped BDSM dungeon for short and overnight visits at The Prive in New Orleans—appointment-based scheduling, class menu (rope, impact, tantra, and more), and amenities tied to the clothing-optional members club context.
Arundel County, MD
The Honey Pot ranks among Maryland's most welcoming BDSM dungeons for LGBTQ+ community members. This Arundel County venue prioritizes consent coaching, safer kink practices, and a Safe Harbor Policy—making it a standout choice for anyone exploring kink in the Baltimore-Washington corridor.
Spring Grove, PA
The Korral is a private members-only, sex-positive club in Spring Grove, PA. Membership $50/year. Fri/Sat 7pm–2am. Monthly Kink Nights, heated pool, 18 themed rooms, BDSM hallway. Education-first, consent-mandatory.
Gastonia, NC
The LoftNC, LLC is a BDSM dungeon and social club in Gastonia, NC (Charlotte metro). For over a decade it has offered education, recurring social events, and a member-focused play space built on responsibility, integrity, confidentiality, and respect.
Philadelphia, PA
The Nest blends creative arts and kink community in Fishtown, Philadelphia. This 4,800 sq. ft. ground-floor space near Fishtown hosts photography, mixed media, and performing arts workshops, rope shares, and social events—with free onsite parking and easy transit access.
Houston, TX
Woman-owned Houston on-premise lifestyle (swingers-forward) clubs with themed nightly parties, 21+ membership, BYOB, and multiple play areas—not a dedicated BDSM dungeon listing. Listed because the CSV flagged dungeon-adjacent programming; confirm kink-specific nights on the official calendar.
Aurora, CO
Denver-area BDSM club on the Front Range—member and guest paths, recurring events, and a fixed venue marketed as a community play space (not a pro-domme retail house).
Florida Panhandle, FL
The Vulgarians — dungeon & educational gatherings: 250+ vetted members across North Florida and the Panhandle. Annual consent class & screening, in-person or Zoom vetting, dedicated on-site dungeon. Play parties, classes (shibari, fire, wax, blowgun), workshops & more.
Orlando, FL
The Woodshed is Orlando's members-only private club dedicated to educating and building community for alternative lifestyles. Open Friday and Saturday evenings on Milner Blvd, it offers workshops, events, education, and a well-equipped play space in a judgment-free environment.
Dover Plains, NY
Lifestyle America Social Club (LASC) Inc. is a federally recognized 501(c)(3) nonprofit. The_LODGE is their Hudson Valley flagship venue—an education-first space for classes, Essential Education, consent-driven events, and community across NY, NJ, PA, CT, and MA.
Los Angeles, CA
LA-based nonprofit Threshold—dungeon education, community classes, and member programming with a long-running consent-forward mission (education-first community, not pro-domme retail).
San Francisco, CA
501(c)(3) leather, kink, and fetish education and social space on Folsom Street—calendar, rentals, and host expectations published on transform1060.org.
Des Moines & Omaha, IA
Consent-forward fetish play parties in Omaha, Nebraska, and Des Moines, Iowa—published PRICK framework, house safeword RED, waivers, member/non-member pricing, and Des Moines venue detail on the official site (Nebraska events: site cites 19+ minimum).
Fredonia, NY
Women-run members club in Western NY—11 playrooms, hot tub, pole, dance floor, BYOB; Saturdays.
Corrales, NM
Albuquerque-area social house—playrooms, DJ, pool, hot tub.
Pittsburgh, PA
Large Pittsburgh sex-positive nightclub (~15,000+ sq ft)—themed rooms, BDSM areas, Fri/Sat.
Astoria, NY
Long-running NYC-area on-premise club—BYOB, dance floor, playrooms, buffet; Thu–Sun.
New York, NY
Exclusive Manhattan members club—application and photo approval; no single men; strict dress code.
Cranston, RI
Large New England on-premise club (~8,000 sq ft), BYOB bar, private rooms, inclusive of swing and fetish communities.
Oklahoma City, OK
Oklahoma premier lifestyle club—2nd & 4th Friday parties.
Euless, TX
12,000 sq ft DFW Eden chain—dance floor, playrooms, theme nights.
Oklahoma City, OK
9,000 sq ft Eden chain location—dance floor, playrooms, theme parties.
San Antonio, TX
11,000 sq ft Eden chain—same ownership as DFW and OKC.
Phoenix, AZ
Established 1996 Phoenix club—open 7 nights, dance floor, playrooms, BYOB (no alcohol sold).
San Bernardino, CA
Large on-premise swing club—13,000+ sq ft, Wed–Sun, BYOB, buffet.
Des Moines, IA
6,500 sq ft members-only on-premise club—verification required.
Los Angeles, CA
Large LA swing club—10,000+ sq ft, couples and single women, BYOB.
San Francisco, CA
SF on-premise party—pre-screened couples and single women, BYOB.
New York, NY
On-premise Manhattan swingers club—membership purchase online; also operates a Los Angeles location.
Portland, OR
Upscale 8,000 sq ft three-level Portland nightclub—bars, buffet, play spaces.
Tukwila, WA
~10,000 sq ft Seattle-area members club—LGBTQ+ welcoming.
Salisbury, MA
Members-only lifestyle nightclub off-premise (meet-and-greet) with dance floor, bars, and 15,000+ member network.
Austin, TX
Colette chain Austin—opened 2018, Shrine BDSM events host.
Dallas, TX
Colette chain location—upscale on-premise club, BYOB setups.
New Orleans, LA
Colette chain location—upscale on-premise club, BYOB, part of national brand.
San Antonio, TX
Former Player's Club—colette franchise location.
Seattle, WA
~14,000 sq ft venue—social side plus three floors of play space.
Houston, TX
Members-only dance club atmosphere—Modern Lifestyle.
Beaver Falls, PA
Established 2002—8,500 sq ft with 12 playrooms, buffet, BYOB bar, outdoor patio Fri/Sat.
Providence, RI
Loft-style on-premise club in a historic mill building—BYOB, dance floor, playrooms, dungeon area, lockers.
Omaha, NE
Nebraska premium lifestyle club—registration and social verification required.
San Diego, CA
3,500 sq ft lifestyle and kink events space—private membership.
Phoenix, AZ
Private membership club—7+ specialty rooms; Wed & Sat nights.
Haysville, KS
Wichita-area private lifestyle club—dungeon space, themed Saturdays.
Edgewood, NM
Private venue expansion to 7,500 sq ft—BYOB, no phones on premises.
Glen Gardner, NJ
Central NJ ~7,800 sq ft venue—multiple playrooms, dance floor, BYOB bar; Fri/Sat late nights.
Brown Mills, NJ
Intimate ~1,500 sq ft on-premise club—couples and single females; RSVP and prepayment.
Hartford, CT
Long-running Connecticut on-premise club—three floors of playrooms, couples and single women, BYOB Saturday nights.
West Babylon, NY
Long Island on-premise club—DJ, dance floor, pole, bar, BDSM room, private and open play.
Reno, NV
Reno original lifestyle club—hot tub, DJ, upstairs play.
Dallas, TX
7,000 sq ft members boutique venue—Playhouse brand (Las Vegas sibling).
Las Vegas, NV
6,000+ sq ft members venue—DJ, private rooms, no alcohol sold.
El Paso, TX
El Paso on-premise social club—dress code, RV parking.
Whitney, NV
Established 1982—13,000 sq ft, pool, bars, live band.
Atlantic City, NJ
Massive NJ shore resort-style complex (~55,000 sq ft) with hotel, pools, multiple dance floors—Fri/Sat.
Littleton, CO
Colorado flagship club—18,000 sq ft on 5 acres, lodge, restaurant, pools.
Waldorf, MD
Purpose-built private membership venue—themed rooms, Red Door Lounge, BDSM equipment, BYOB.
Emmaus, PA
Lehigh Valley small on-premise club—SLS registration required; Wed afternoon and Fri/Sat nights.
Hyattsville, MD
DC suburbs on-premise club—501(c)(7) social club; dance floor, playrooms, bartenders for BYOB.
Philadelphia, PA
Members-only Philadelphia club—two hot tubs, BDSM room, dance floor, Wed and Fri/Sat hours.
New York, NY
Midtown on-premise club (3,000 sq ft)—couples area, private rooms, BYOB; text-only phone.
Tulsa, OK
Tulsa lifestyle club—100–200 guests, themed parties, BYOB patio.
Liverpool, NY
Central NY lifestyle club—ticketing via SLS / Modern Lifestyle; verify permanent venue status.
Catonsville, MD
Baltimore-area premier on-premise club since 2004—raised dance floor, VIP suites, BYOB setups.
San Diego, CA
San Diego licensed swingers club—pool, jacuzzi, dance floor; invitation system.
Oklahoma City, OK
Private membership dance club—orientation required.
Orrtanna, PA
Gettysburg-area three-floor on-premise club—buffet, jacuzzi, BYOB bars, overnight crash rooms.
New York, NY
Newer upscale Tribeca venue (~4,500 sq ft)—RSVP required; members-only swingers events.
Las Vegas, NV
Vegas club that sells alcohol—themed rooms, long hours.
Ronkonkoma, NY
Long Island lifestyle club—Fri & Sat late nights; verify relocation notices if any.
Brooklyn, NY
Brooklyn permanent venue for lifestyle events—bar, dance floor, BDSM room, open and private play.
Houston, TX
Established 2019—large dance floor, DJ, playrooms, female-owned.
Houston, TX
Woman-owned Houston lifestyle club—multiple play areas.
Philadelphia, PA
South Philly on-premise club behind Purple Orchid—two bars, large dance floor, themed rooms, no phones.
Port Deposit, MD
Cecil County fenced property—~25 themed rooms, pool, 20-person hot tub, dance floor, BYOB bar.
Kansas City, MO
8,000+ sq ft KC lifestyle nightclub—pool, dance hall, playrooms.
Mesa, AZ
Mesa PMA private sanctuary—Fri/Sat nights, live music and themed events.
Portland, OR
Portland legacy club since 1990—~10,000 sq ft, hot tubs, multiple levels.
Boise, ID
Treasure Valley private lifestyle club—dungeon and house party areas, BYOB.
Newport, PA
Central PA large-scale club—Roman-style hot tub (80 seats), 12 party rooms, dance stage, BYOB bar.
San Francisco, CA
SF dedicated swingers club—registration required, BYOB bar, dance floor.
Las Vegas, NV
Large on-premise pool parties—couples and single ladies only.
Terryville, CT
Newer on-premise club (opened late 2024) with 3,000+ sq ft, multiple playrooms, BYOB; single men Fridays only.
Washington, DC
Producer of the DC Fetish Ball and related Mid-Atlantic nightlife—multi-level venue programming with dungeon and dance floors.
Cleveland, OH
OhioSMART has been Cleveland's longest-running BDSM organization since 1995. 501c(7) non-profit. 19+ to join. Beyond its private dungeon, the group hosts munches, educational workshops, and outdoor activities—a solid choice for Ohio and Great Lakes kinksters seeking a vetted, inclusive community.
San Francisco, CA
SF institution since 1996—multi-floor pansexual club, drug and alcohol free.