Dungeons & swing clubs

Alaska Club Kink

BDSM Dungeon

Anchorage, AK

Anchorage-area BDSM and kink community with a private club space—membership paths, vetting, and recurring social and play programming described on the official site.

Arcadia Collective Detroit

BDSM Dungeon

Troy, MI

Arcadia Collective operates The Mothership—a Detroit-area LGBTQ+ community hub with a stocked BDSM dungeon, rope education (Michigan Happy Knots), Deviations Detroit play parties, drag and charity events, and sober house rules.

Ascend Hudson Valley Community

Kink Community

Hudson Valley, NY

Welcome to The Ascend Hudson Valley Community - A nurturing space for consenting adults in the kink and alternative lifestyle community. We foster a risk-aware, consensual kink (RACK) community in the Hudson Valley.

Baltimore Playhouse

BDSM Dungeon

Baltimore, MD

Baltimore Playhouse has been Charm City's premier kink destination since 1997. 12,000 sq ft—the largest play space of its kind in the US. 3010 Washington Blvd. Alcohol-free, drug-free, 250-attendee cap. Kink First Contact (first Friday) welcomes newcomers without contributorship. 19+.

Black Rose

Community Organization

Washington, DC

Large DC-area BDSM education and social nonprofit—classes, munches, and play parties since 1988.

Black Thorn

Private Kink Dungeon

Oakland, CA

Oakland Bay Area rental dungeon and photo-friendly studio—five themed rooms, booking requests, waivers, and ID requirements per public site copy (not a drop-in pro-domme house).

Center for Sex Positive Culture (CSPC)

Kink Community Center

Seattle, WA

Seattle’s long-running sex-positive nonprofit—classes, labs, member programs, and consent-forward community space with published codes of conduct and membership pathways.

Deviance Tampa Bay

BDSM Dungeon

Tampa, FL

Deviance Tampa Bay is a 5,000+ sq ft community hub for kink, consent, and connection—open Friday and Saturday nights with membership, classes, and a well-equipped play space serving the Tampa Bay region.

Diosa's Play Space

BDSM Dungeon

Winchester, VA

Private membership social club in Winchester, VA—about 2,100 sq ft luxe play space, vetting and meet-and-greets, $99 annual membership, SSC framework, and BYOB events per public site. Confirm current schedule before visiting.

Fetish Factory

Event Producer

Fort Lauderdale, FL

South Florida fetish event producer—parties and the annual anniversary weekend serving the Florida kink and fetish scene.

Galleria Domain 2

BDSM Dungeon

Chicago, IL

Galleria Domain 2 (GD2) is a 501(c)(7) nonprofit private membership club in Chicago with 4,000+ sq ft of play space, social areas, and a library—open Friday through Sunday nights.

Infliction Hall

BDSM Dungeon

DFW / Euless area, TX

DFW member-based kink club on the Modern Lifestyle platform—VIP and Platinum tiers, RSVPs and ticketing for themed dungeon nights (rope, impact, littles, and more). The public calendar also lists lifestyle travel and resort promotions; read event copy before booking.

Kink Center

Kink Community Center

Seattle, WA

Seattle nonprofit community dungeon and education hub—open houses, classes, and member programming framed as consent-forward public-benefit work.

LRA Chicago

BDSM Dungeon

Chicago, IL

LRA Chicago is a volunteer-operated 501(c)(3) nonprofit with 2,500+ sq ft of dungeon space, a non-alcoholic social bar area, and regular public education events for adults 19+ exploring kink and relationships.

Metro Underground / DC Fetish Ball

Venue & Producer

Washington, DC

Producer of the DC Fetish Ball and related Mid-Atlantic nightlife—multi-level venue programming with dungeon and dance floors.

New England Leather Alliance (NELA)

Community Organization

Boston, MA

Regional leather and kink nonprofit serving New England—education, contests, and community gatherings. Not a brick-and-mortar dungeon; a hub for leather culture across the Northeast.

Oblige

BDSM Dungeon

Detroit, MI

Oblige is a 7,000 sq ft rope, kink, and art space in Detroit’s Milwaukee Junction—classes, rope jams, Performance & Play parties, munches, and equipped dungeon areas with community-forward programming.

OhioSMART

BDSM Organization

Cleveland, OH

OhioSMART has been Cleveland's longest-running BDSM organization since 1995. 501c(7) non-profit. 19+ to join. Beyond its private dungeon, the group hosts munches, educational workshops, and outdoor activities—a solid choice for Ohio and Great Lakes kinksters seeking a vetted, inclusive community.

Oklahoma Power Exchange

BDSM Dungeon

Oklahoma City metro, OK

18+ private BDSM and power-exchange community in the Oklahoma City area with a member dungeon, mandatory vetting and membership paths, recurring play parties and midweek dungeon nights, Ticketleap registration, and published guest and non-discrimination policies.

Paddles

BDSM Dungeon

New York, NY

Long-running public BDSM play space in Manhattan with coed and men-only nights, equipment, and a street-accessible Chelsea location. Verify hours and policies on the venue website before visiting.

PLEASUREcation Party

BDSM/Swinger Party

Philadelphia, PA

BDSM/Swinger sex-positive dance and play party at Pleasure Garden Club, first Friday of each month. Doors 8pm. Couples $60, Single Females $40, Single Males $120. Dress to impress—fetish, leather, latex, club-wear, or theme.

Purgatory Dungeon

BDSM Dungeon

Albuquerque, NM

Albuquerque member-focused dungeon and social club—vetted access, recurring parties, and education with published conduct expectations on the official site.

Saints & Sinners

Swingers Club

Philadelphia, PA

Philly's premier adult playground for swingers. "Rather run with the sinners than walk with the saints." Playrooms, lounge areas, dance floors. Membership: Single Females $20/yr, Couples $50/yr, Single Males $100/yr. Fri/Sat 9pm–3am.

Sanctuary

BDSM Dungeon

Portland, OR

Portland member-based dungeon and social club—orientation, parties, and education with vetting and published community standards on the official WordPress site.

Sarasota Dark Temple

Sacred Kink Sanctuary

Sarasota, FL

Sarasota Dark Temple offers a trauma-informed sacred kink space for Florida's Gulf Coast. With workshops, classes, and a Conscious Restoration Process for conflict resolution, it stands out for those seeking self-growth and community in a judgment-free environment.

Shrine Parties

BDSM Dungeon

Austin, TX

Austin monthly fetish and kink play parties blending dungeon and club energy—18+ with ID, Shrine waivers, and a no-cost temporary colette Club membership. Vendors, volunteers, and optional STI testing partnerships per official site.

STL3 (Gateway Alternative Lifestyle Center)

Community Organization

St. Louis, MO

St. Louis 501(c)(3) Gateway Alternative Lifestyle Center—nonprofit framing for education and community support with membership and program links on stl3.com.

Sub Rosa Studios

Private Kink Dungeon

Portland, OR

Portland rental kink studio—online booking for private scenes and small shoots in a fixed, equipped space (rental venue, not pro-domme session retail).

SubSpace Indy

BDSM Dungeon

Indianapolis, IN

Indy-area kink venue hosting play parties, contests, and regional rope events—including Indy Rope Expo—with membership and guest-list practices described on the official site.

SubSpace Seattle

BDSM Dungeon

Tukwila, WA

Puget Sound member dungeon south of Seattle—parties, education, and a large equipped space with published membership and guest policies (community club model).

The Academy of Fetish Arts

BDSM Dungeon

Cleveland, OH

The Academy of Fetish Arts is a large members-only playspace in Cleveland—6,500 sq ft with a main dungeon, themed rooms, social lounge, monitored parking, and regular Saturday parties and education for ages 19+.

The Aphrodite Group

BDSM Dungeon

Rochester, NY

The Aphrodite Group (TAG) is a private, woman-owned, members-only BDSM club in Rochester, NY since 2016. Sat 7pm–1am. Currently relocating—monthly socials continue. Vetting socials to join. Single $35, plans from $30/mo.

The Aviary Philly

Kink Club

Philadelphia, PA

The Aviary is Philadelphia's monthly fetish night—second Saturday of every month, 8pm–1am. 1315 Spruce St. $35 advance, $40 door. 18+. Front room, Newbie Room, Main Room, Playground, Aftercare Room. Proof of vaccination required.

The Chicago Rose

BDSM Dungeon

Chicago, IL

The Chicago Rose is a volunteer-run BDSM dungeon in Rogers Park—education nights, social and play weekends, consent-forward policies, and optional private rentals supporting a diverse Chicago kink community (18+).

The Crow's Nest Escape

Private Kink Dungeon

Seattle, WA

Seattle-area bookable kink studios—The Nest and The Roost—marketed for private rentals and small gatherings with online scheduling (community rental model, not pro-domme retail).

The Crucible

BDSM Dungeon

Washington DC, DC

The Crucible is a 501(c)7 members-only, non-profit private social club at 412 V Street NE, Washington DC. Membership $40/year. Monthly Dungeon 101 outreach (first Friday)—no membership required. 6,000 sq ft play space.

The Denver Sanctuary

BDSM Dungeon

Denver, CO

Denver’s large member-based kink club—recurring parties, education, and a permanent play space with published rules and membership orientation (community venue, not a pro-domme house).

The Emporium (Kink Haven)

Community Organization

Connecticut, CT

The Emporium’s Kink Haven offers BDSM 101 and fetish education, munches, and play parties at The Studio—a Connecticut-based community space centered on safety, education, consent, and diversity.

The Eulenspiegel Society (TES)

Community Organization

New York, NY

Founded in 1971, TES is one of the oldest BDSM organizations in the US—munches, classes, workshops, and TES Fest in New Jersey.

The Happy Kitten Portal

BDSM Dungeon

New Orleans, LA

Bookable, fully equipped BDSM dungeon for short and overnight visits at The Prive in New Orleans—appointment-based scheduling, class menu (rope, impact, tantra, and more), and amenities tied to the clothing-optional members club context.

The Honey Pot

LGBTQ+ Friendly BDSM Dungeon

Arundel County, MD

The Honey Pot ranks among Maryland's most welcoming BDSM dungeons for LGBTQ+ community members. This Arundel County venue prioritizes consent coaching, safer kink practices, and a Safe Harbor Policy—making it a standout choice for anyone exploring kink in the Baltimore-Washington corridor.

The Korral

Private Members Club

Spring Grove, PA

The Korral is a private members-only, sex-positive club in Spring Grove, PA. Membership $50/year. Fri/Sat 7pm–2am. Monthly Kink Nights, heated pool, 18 themed rooms, BDSM hallway. Education-first, consent-mandatory.

The LoftNC

BDSM Dungeon

Gastonia, NC

The LoftNC, LLC is a BDSM dungeon and social club in Gastonia, NC (Charlotte metro). For over a decade it has offered education, recurring social events, and a member-focused play space built on responsibility, integrity, confidentiality, and respect.

The Mark by CPI

Kink Community Center

Nashville, TN

The Mark by CPI is Nashville's kink community center—a Tennessee non-profit with 6,000 sq. ft. in South Nashville. Open Fri/Sat 8pm–2am. First-Friday Welcome Munch and weekly classes welcome newcomers; membership ($40/6mo) required for play parties. ADA accessible, consent-based.

The Nest

Creative Arts Collective

Philadelphia, PA

The Nest blends creative arts and kink community in Fishtown, Philadelphia. This 4,800 sq. ft. ground-floor space near Fishtown hosts photography, mixed media, and performing arts workshops, rope shares, and social events—with free onsite parking and easy transit access.

The Pendulum Club

Lifestyle Club

Houston, TX

Woman-owned Houston on-premise lifestyle (swingers-forward) clubs with themed nightly parties, 21+ membership, BYOB, and multiple play areas—not a dedicated BDSM dungeon listing. Listed because the CSV flagged dungeon-adjacent programming; confirm kink-specific nights on the official calendar.

The R.A.C.K. Room

Kink Club

Aurora, CO

Denver-area BDSM club on the Front Range—member and guest paths, recurring events, and a fixed venue marketed as a community play space (not a pro-domme retail house).

The Vulgarians

Private Kink Dungeon

Florida Panhandle, FL

The Vulgarians — dungeon & educational gatherings: 250+ vetted members across North Florida and the Panhandle. Annual consent class & screening, in-person or Zoom vetting, dedicated on-site dungeon. Play parties, classes (shibari, fire, wax, blowgun), workshops & more.

The Woodshed

Private Kink Dungeon

Orlando, FL

The Woodshed is Orlando's members-only private club dedicated to educating and building community for alternative lifestyles. Open Friday and Saturday evenings on Milner Blvd, it offers workshops, events, education, and a well-equipped play space in a judgment-free environment.

The_LODGE brought to you by Lifestyle America Social Club Inc.

Education-First Community Venue

Dover Plains, NY

Lifestyle America Social Club (LASC) Inc. is a federally recognized 501(c)(3) nonprofit. The_LODGE is their Hudson Valley flagship venue—an education-first space for classes, Essential Education, consent-driven events, and community across NY, NJ, PA, CT, and MA.

Threshold Society

Education-First Community Venue

Los Angeles, CA

LA-based nonprofit Threshold—dungeon education, community classes, and member programming with a long-running consent-forward mission (education-first community, not pro-domme retail).

Vortex Parties

BDSM Dungeon

Des Moines & Omaha, IA

Consent-forward fetish play parties in Omaha, Nebraska, and Des Moines, Iowa—published PRICK framework, house safeword RED, waivers, member/non-member pricing, and Des Moines venue detail on the official site (Nebraska events: site cites 19+ minimum).