The Aphrodite Group
Rochester, NY
BDSM Dungeon · Contact for location
The Aphrodite Group (TAG) is a private, woman-owned, members-only BDSM club in Rochester, NY since 2016. Sat 7pm-1am. Currently relocating - monthly socials continue. Vetting socials to join. Single $35, plans from $30/mo.
Upcoming at The Aphrodite Group
What's happening at this location.
October 2026
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About this space
The Aphrodite Group (TAG) - Est. 2016. Rochester, NY. 585-204-0181 (text only), TAGinfo@TheAphroditegroup.org. FetLife for events and updates.
Note: TAG is currently relocating its dungeon. Monthly socials have not been affected - please join us there. Check the website for updates.
TAG is a PRIVATE, WOMAN-OWNED, members-only adult social club, learning facility, and event space built with passion, purpose, and community in mind. Saturdays 7pm-1am (workshops and community nights may vary - see event calendar).
What We're About
At TAG, we center consensual BDSM play, education, and special events in a respectful, supportive, and sex-positive environment.
Let's be crystal clear:
NOT a sex club (but we're proud to be sex-positive)
NOT a hook-up joint (but we hope you connect with amazing people)
NOT a service provider (no money is exchanged for services here)
NOT a matchmaking service (but our events are full of kindred spirits)
We ARE a vetted, intentional, vibrant community for adults who take their kink and connection seriously.
THE LARGEST DEDICATED BDSM EVENT SPACE in Rochester & Western NY.
How to Join
Join us by attending one of our vetting socials.
Membership Plans (members only; vetted and approved members can purchase online or in person)
Single entry: $35 (one party, one night)
Star Plan: $30/month (1 party)
Purple Plan: $55/month (2 parties and 1 workshop)
Red Plan: $80/month (3+ parties and all workshops)
VIP (for 2): $100 (exclusive room for the night)
Add a party / TAG a friend: $25
Details: https://www.theaphroditegroup.org/pricing-plans/list
How to attend
- Read the official rules on the venue website when available.
- Check upcoming events or membership requirements - membership may be required.
- Contact the venue at TAGinfo@TheAphroditegroup.org.
- Confirm hours, access, and house rules with the venue before you visit.
Attend a published vetting social listed on https://www.tagrochester.com/event-list. Membership plans and single-entry details are on theaphroditegroup.org.
Rules and policies
- Confirm consent, photography, and house policies on official TAG pages before visiting.
Features
- Play space
- Classes
- Membership
- Hours posted
- House rulesConfirm consent, photography, and house policies on official TAG pages before visiting.
Public listing for discovery - not an endorsement. Confirm hours, access, and house rules with the venue before you visit.
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