Looking for BDSM dungeons in New York? This page highlights physical venues that anchor local kink communities: play spaces, education nights, member socials, and structured environments for negotiation and consent. Many operate as 501(c)(7) social clubs or private memberships; others rent or partner for classes and rope shares. This directory slice lists 5 spaces that match your filters - nonprofits, private clubs, and hybrid venues.
Spaces in New York serve New York City, Buffalo, Rochester, and upstate. Policies vary - RSVP, ID checks, membership tiers, and alcohol rules are common. Always read each venue’s site before you go: hours, pricing, and newcomer nights change. We list vetted public information; inclusion is not an endorsement of every policy or event.
Use this hub as a geographic starting point, then open individual listings for addresses (when published), contact channels, and programming. Pair discovery with our events calendar and regional BDSM event hubs for weekends and conventions that may visit or partner with these spaces.
Throughout 2026 we refine listings as clubs update sites. If you operate a venue here, use the dungeon submission flow on the main dungeons page so travelers and locals can find you responsibly.
Hudson Valley, NY
Welcome to The Ascend Hudson Valley Community - A nurturing space for consenting adults in the kink and alternative lifestyle community. We foster a risk-aware, consensual kink (RACK) community in the Hudson Valley.
Rochester, NY
The Aphrodite Group (TAG) is a private, woman-owned, members-only BDSM club in Rochester, NY since 2016. Sat 7pm-1am. Currently relocating - monthly socials continue. Vetting socials to join. Single $35, plans from $30/mo.
New York, NY
Founded in 1971, TES is one of the oldest BDSM organizations in the US - munches, classes, workshops, and TES Fest in New Jersey.
Dover Plains, NY
Lifestyle America Social Club (LASC) Inc. is a federally recognized 501(c)(3) nonprofit. The_LODGE is their Hudson Valley flagship venue - an education-first space for classes, Essential Education, consent-driven events, and community across NY, NJ, PA, CT, and MA.
Dover Plains, NY
Welcome to Lifestyle America Social Club Inc. Where Connection, Growth, and Celebration Come Together Our Purpose We exist to bridge generational gaps and create a space where connection, learning, and growth are at the heart of everything we do. Through vibrant discussions, idea-sharing, and meet-ups, we cultivate an environment where authentic relationships thrive. Whether you're a seasoned member or new to the scene, there's always room for you here. Our Mission Inclusivity is the name of the game. We aim to build a community where everyone can grow, share their stories, and connect—without fear of judgment. We celebrate diversity, encourage personal growth, and promote mutual respect. By doing so, we’re forging connections that transcend boundaries and honor individuality in every form. Our Events From laid-back munches to immersive educational workshops and unforgettable parties, we offer a delicious mix of events designed to help you connect, learn, and grow—no matter where you are on your journey. Each event is crafted to be an inclusive, safe space where you can kick back, meet like-minded individuals, and expand your horizons. We pride ourselves on creating spaces that aren't just about fun, but about fostering respect, joy, and open-mindedness. Whether you're a curious newbie or a seasoned pro, there's always something here for you to enjoy and explore. Let’s celebrate individuality and create some seriously unforgettable memories together! Member Values As a member, you gain access to exclusive spaces meant for deep connections. We believe trust, discretion, and consent are the backbone of our community, and we ask all members to uphold these values. Together, we’re building a community where everyone can thrive, be their authentic selves, and feel respected. Be Part of Our Journey At Lifestyle America Social Club Inc., we’re not just a group—we’re a community. A community built on respect, shared aspirations, and the desire to grow together. Whether you're here to learn, meet new people, or celebrate with friends, you’re always welcome to be part of our journey. Let’s make something extraordinary happen—together. Important Note For the safety and comfort of our members, we carefully manage access to our community spaces. Please note that we love anyone following us to keep up with what's going on with events but we only accept Friend requests from vetted active members . If you're interested in joining, we encourage you to follow us for updates on upcoming munches, events, and other opportunities to engage. For more details, visit our website and start your journey with us today! @LASC-TNG For those between 18-35, join our LASC-TNG Group. This dedicated space is all about connecting, building friendships, and celebrating shared journeys with others in your age range. We can't wait to welcome you into this fun, supportive group! LASC-HVLC Interested in becoming a member? Check out our Membership Application on the website. Better yet—come to one of our munches, get vetted, and dive into the heart of what makes us great! Follow Us Stay connected through our Private Facebook Group (Hudson Valley Lifestyle Club). Answer the questions, accept the rules, and you're in! Or join our Discord Server to stay in the loop on events, munches, and everything else. We look forward to seeing you at our next event, meeting, or just online. Keep in touch, stay involved, and let’s continue building a space filled with respect, growth, and unforgettable experiences. Cheers to what's next!
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