BDSM play party events in New York (2026)
If you are looking for play party BDSM events in New York, this page lists upcoming listings that match that tag alongside Play party. These events take place across New York City, Brooklyn, Queens, and upstate hubs like Buffalo and Rochester and range from social meetups to structured play and education.
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The Libra Couples Bash
2026-09-26 9:00 PM-2026-09-27 4:00 AM ET
Astoria, NY
Sinful Sunday Night Swinger Social
2026-09-27 9:00 PM-2026-09-28 3:00 AM ET
Astoria, NY
One Night Stand
2026-10-01 9:00 PM-2026-10-02 3:00 AM ET
Astoria, NY
Sinful Sunday Night Swinger Social
2026-10-04 9:00 PM-2026-10-05 3:00 AM ET
Astoria, NY
One Night Stand
2026-10-08 9:00 PM-2026-10-09 3:00 AM ET
Astoria, NY
Sinful Sunday Night Swinger Social
2026-10-11 9:00 PM-2026-10-12 3:00 AM ET
Astoria, NY
One Night Stand
2026-10-15 9:00 PM-2026-10-16 3:00 AM ET
Astoria, NY
Sinful Sunday Night Swinger Social
2026-10-18 9:00 PM-2026-10-19 3:00 AM ET
Astoria, NY
One Night Stand
2026-10-22 9:00 PM-2026-10-23 3:00 AM ET
Astoria, NY
Sinful Sunday Night Swinger Social
2026-10-25 9:00 PM-2026-10-26 3:00 AM ET
Astoria, NY
One Night Stand
2026-10-29 9:00 PM-2026-10-30 3:00 AM ET
Astoria, NY
Dungeons & kink venues
Ascend Hudson Valley Community
Kink CommunityHudson Valley, NY
Welcome to The Ascend Hudson Valley Community - A nurturing space for consenting adults in the kink and alternative lifestyle community. We foster a risk-aware, consensual kink (RACK) community in the Hudson Valley.
The Aphrodite Group
BDSM DungeonRochester, NY
The Aphrodite Group (TAG) is a private, woman-owned, members-only BDSM club in Rochester, NY since 2016. Sat 7pm-1am. Currently relocating - monthly socials continue. Vetting socials to join. Single $35, plans from $30/mo.
The Eulenspiegel Society (TES)
Community OrganizationNew York, NY
Founded in 1971, TES is one of the oldest BDSM organizations in the US - munches, classes, workshops, and TES Fest in New Jersey.
The_LODGE brought to you by Lifestyle America Social Club Inc.
Education-First Community VenueDover Plains, NY
Lifestyle America Social Club (LASC) Inc. is a federally recognized 501(c)(3) nonprofit. The_LODGE is their Hudson Valley flagship venue - an education-first space for classes, Essential Education, consent-driven events, and community across NY, NJ, PA, CT, and MA.