Pennsylvania kink events, places, vendors, and education

Body Shop Pittsburgh

Pittsburgh, PA

Large Pittsburgh sex-positive nightclub (~15,000+ sq ft) - themed rooms, BDSM areas, Fri/Sat.

DJ's Island

Beaver Falls, PA

Established 2002 - 8,500 sq ft with 12 playrooms, buffet, BYOB bar, outdoor patio Fri/Sat.

PLEASUREcation Party

Philadelphia, PA

BDSM/Swinger sex-positive dance and play party at Pleasure Garden Club, first Friday of each month. Doors 8pm. Couples $60, Single Females $40, Single Males $120. Dress to impress - fetish, leather, latex, club-wear, or theme.

Saints & Sinners

Philadelphia, PA

Philly's premier adult playground for swingers. "Rather run with the sinners than walk with the saints." Playrooms, lounge areas, dance floors. Membership: Single Females $20/yr, Couples $50/yr, Single Males $100/yr. Fri/Sat 9pm-3am.

Secret Pleasures

Emmaus, PA

Lehigh Valley small on-premise club - SLS registration required; Wed afternoon and Fri/Sat nights.

Sinner's Paradise

Philadelphia, PA

Members-only Philadelphia club - two hot tubs, BDSM room, dance floor, Wed and Fri/Sat hours.

Dodson Designs

Denver, PA

Dodson Designs creates bespoke and heirloom-quality leather accessories and apparel, handcrafted by veteran artist Donald Dodson in Pennsylvania. Their work blends functional craftsmanship with custom tooling for pieces designed to be used, loved, and passed down. They emphasize responsive communication and custom builds tailored to the end user.

Delicious Boutique

Philadelphia, PA

Delicious Boutique is a Philadelphia-based boutique carrying a wide range of alternative fashion, accessories, and jewelry across many independent designers. Their public website includes in-store details and a large catalog..

Flogging Farmers

Online · tables at local events

We’re Flogging Farmers, makers of handcrafted birch floggers and impact toys built to feel as good in your hand as they do in play. Every piece is made with an eye for balance, durability, and a beautiful finish, because we believe a well-made toy!

EF Leather

Online · tables at local events

EF Leather specializes in high-quality impact toys including floggers, kangaroo-handled whips, nylon whips, galley whips, cat o’ nine tails, and leather goods. They describe a focus on precision, craftsmanship, and authenticity, with offerings that include vending, demonstrations, and educational classes..

Kinky Elf Toys

Online · tables at local events

Kinky Elf Toys describes themselves as a designer, builder, and manufacturer of BDSM toys, implements, and furniture - ranging from sensual to more intense styles. They note expanding from paddles into a wider range of implements and dungeon furniture..

When a Paid Femdom Session Becomes a Legal Problem

Legal · 11 min read

A guide to the legal line between a paid, nonsexual BDSM session and commercial sexual services in the United States and Canada.

Breast Torture 201: Clamps, Impact, and Rope Limits

Safety · 12 min read

The step after beginner nipple play: alligator and clover clamps, slaps, suction, wax, and the chest-rope limits that still require a teacher.

Masochism 201: One Step Further

Techniques · 8 min read

How to add one harder element to impact play after hand spanking is already predictable, and which tools are still too soon.

Masochism 101: Agreed Pain

Techniques · 8 min read

What agreed pain is, where a first spank should and should not land, and how to stop it.