Rhode Island kink events, places, vendors, and education

Choice Social Club

Cranston, RI

Large New England on-premise club (~8,000 sq ft), BYOB bar, private rooms, inclusive of swing and fetish communities.

Electricity Social Club

Providence, RI

Loft-style on-premise club in a historic mill building - BYOB, dance floor, playrooms, dungeon area, lockers.

Flogging Farmers

Online · tables at local events

We’re Flogging Farmers, makers of handcrafted birch floggers and impact toys built to feel as good in your hand as they do in play. Every piece is made with an eye for balance, durability, and a beautiful finish, because we believe a well-made toy!

EF Leather

Online · tables at local events

EF Leather specializes in high-quality impact toys including floggers, kangaroo-handled whips, nylon whips, galley whips, cat o’ nine tails, and leather goods. They describe a focus on precision, craftsmanship, and authenticity, with offerings that include vending, demonstrations, and educational classes..

Kinky Elf Toys

Online · tables at local events

Kinky Elf Toys describes themselves as a designer, builder, and manufacturer of BDSM toys, implements, and furniture - ranging from sensual to more intense styles. They note expanding from paddles into a wider range of implements and dungeon furniture..

What Is Primal Play? The Kink That Makes Room for Instinct

Community · 10 min read

For some, “primal” describes a chase, a struggle or a moment of wordless connection. For others, it is an identity. Behind the language of wildness is a surprisingly deliberate practice.

Negotiating a Group Encounter Before Anyone Arrives

Consent

Who is invited, which pairings are a yes, which barriers are required, who can stop the room, and what happens when someone changes their mind. All of it settled before the door opens.

Is Polyamory Legal in the United States? What the Law Actually Says

Resources · 9 min read

Polyamory is generally lawful for consenting adults, but plural marriage remains unavailable nationwide. A legal guide to bigamy, discrimination, custody, benefits, and local protections.

Seattle Polyamory Protections: What the New Law Does and Does Not Do

Resources · 7 min read

Seattle’s new civil-rights ordinance protects consensual multi-partner relationships from discrimination. Here is what it covers, when it takes effect, and what it does not change.