Kansas kink events, places, vendors, and education

Ice Lounge

Haysville, KS

Wichita-area private lifestyle club - dungeon space, themed Saturdays.

Flogging Farmers

Online · tables at local events

We’re Flogging Farmers, makers of handcrafted birch floggers and impact toys built to feel as good in your hand as they do in play. Every piece is made with an eye for balance, durability, and a beautiful finish, because we believe a well-made toy!

EF Leather

Online · tables at local events

EF Leather specializes in high-quality impact toys including floggers, kangaroo-handled whips, nylon whips, galley whips, cat o’ nine tails, and leather goods. They describe a focus on precision, craftsmanship, and authenticity, with offerings that include vending, demonstrations, and educational classes..

Kinky Elf Toys

Online · tables at local events

Kinky Elf Toys describes themselves as a designer, builder, and manufacturer of BDSM toys, implements, and furniture - ranging from sensual to more intense styles. They note expanding from paddles into a wider range of implements and dungeon furniture..

Kink research desk

Beginner · 6 min read

Short briefs on BDSM, fetish, consent, and polyamory research, each tied to a public event or play space on this site.

How to Flirt With Women as a Bisexual Woman

Community · 8 min read

Why friendliness and flirting overlap among women, how to ask in a way she can refuse, and how that changes at a kink event.

Halloween Costumes Are Not Consent

Community · 9 min read

A costume is clothing. Public nights with minors are not play spaces. A kink event in October still has house rules.

The Kink Aware Professionals Directory

Resources · 5 min read

What the NCSF directory is, why a listing is not a credential, and how therapists, physicians, and lawyers on it differ.