Places

West Hollywood, CA

West Hollywood dungeon and community space for classes, socials, and curated play parties. Calendar on 910weho.com/events.

Anchorage, AK

Anchorage-area BDSM and kink community with a private club space - membership paths, vetting, and recurring social and play programming described on the official site.

Troy, MI

Arcadia Collective operates The Mothership - a Detroit-area LGBTQ+ community hub with a stocked BDSM dungeon, rope education (Michigan Happy Knots), Deviations Detroit play parties, drag and charity events, and sober house rules.

Hudson Valley, NY

Welcome to The Ascend Hudson Valley Community - A nurturing space for consenting adults in the kink and alternative lifestyle community. We foster a risk-aware, consensual kink (RACK) community in the Hudson Valley.

Holyoke, MA

Western Massachusetts kink-positive retail, educational and event home—rope, kink, CNM, sexual health classes, munches, and community nights at 358 Dwight St. Public registration lives on boink-ed.com/event.

Washington, DC

Washington, D.C. BDSM education and social organization. Official calendar on br.org. Many in-person nights are at The Crucible.

Oakland, CA

Oakland Bay Area rental dungeon and photo-friendly studio - five themed rooms, booking requests, waivers, and ID requirements per public site copy (not a drop-in pro-domme house).

Tampa, FL

Deviance Tampa Bay is a 5,000+ sq ft community hub for kink, consent, and connection - open Friday and Saturday nights with membership, classes, and a well-equipped play space serving the Tampa Bay region.

Dallas, TX

Dallas-Fort Worth dungeon and event venue - orientations, rope labs, Pride nights, and ticketed local programming on Forbidden Tickets.

Winchester, VA

Private membership social club in Winchester, VA - about 2,100 sq ft luxe play space, vetting and meet-and-greets, $99 annual membership, SSC framework, and BYOB events per public site. Confirm current schedule before visiting.

Vineland, NJ

Come escape the mundane and allow yourself to be fully uninhibited. Our goal is to make all who step foot through our doors feel as though they have been transported to a place they thought only existed in their imagination. With a history of high end clientele and signed NDAs, discretion is of the utmost importance to us so you can enjoy yourselves without any worry. We keep everything well stocked and meticulously maintained. With all of Elysium's remarkable offerings, there is sure to be something for everyone. From novice to extreme players, whether you identify as a swinger, lifestyler, fetishist, nudist, hedonist, or are just looking for a sexy change in your environment, we celebrate diversity! We are able to accommodate a vast array of fetish interests and lend a luxurious atmosphere to any professional session, photo shoot, private party or play date. We are an all-inclusive facility. Here at Elysium, we wish to provide a safe place for everyone to satiate their appetite regardless of how you identify. Hate has no place here. Elysium is a well-equipped, ample play space including many pieces of BDSM and fetish furniture such as a St. Andrew’s Cross, genital-torture chair, and bed with a locking cage underneath, as well as easily accessible and organized toys so you can play to your heart’s content. Other amenities include convenient and free parking, a full bathroom, a kitchen area with a fridge filled with beverages and microwave, and a hot tub for relaxing under the stars. You will have access to two private rooms plus the main space, one of which is designed to be a beautiful sacred sexuality space with gear to delight any enthusiast, including electroplay, chemical play, all types of restraints, and tools to deepen intimacy with your partner. The second features a queen size bed with under the bed restraints, a spanking bench, and a lavish sex swing for extra fun. You will also find a costume wardrobe, makeup, and other accessories for your role play scenarios including age play, feminization, and much more. There are numerous fireplace heaters available for added ambiance and comfort. Adorning the walls is a variety of artistic pieces to excite the senses. We cater to folks who are just looking for a sexy getaway, experienced kinksters, and everyone in between. Elegant, ethereal lighting, and Alexa-powered music throughout the space work to create a truly memorable experience. Even though this space is heavenly, it is perfect for fulfilling those deep, dark dungeon desires. Furniture and implements include, but are not limited to: - Luxurious sex swing - Padded leather bondage bed with lockable cage underneath - Wooden suspension rig - St. Andrew’s Cross - Spanking bench - Queen pillowtop bed - Genital exposure/torture chair - Meditation and service benches - Leather and spandex sleepsacks - Venus milking machine - Canvas and leather straitjackets - Sex Machines - Bondage stocks and humblers - Vast collection of gags, hoods, collars, impact toys, insertables, sensation play items, pleasure devices, bondage and medical equipment, urethral sounds, CBT, and ABDL supplies - Tons of footwear, wigs, clothing, and costumes for crossdressing/feminization fantasies - And so much more!

Fort Lauderdale, FL

Fort Lauderdale fetish showroom and event producer - monthly Alter Ego dress-code nights plus Florida Fetish Weekend. Party calendar and tickets on fetishfactory.com / alteregoparty.com.

Chicago, IL

Chicago rope and shibari education collective - beginner through advanced classes, jams, and private lessons with published safety curriculum on heartlandkinbaku.com.

DFW / Euless area, TX

DFW member-based kink club on the Modern Lifestyle platform - VIP and Platinum tiers, RSVPs and ticketing for themed dungeon nights (rope, impact, littles, and more). The public calendar also lists lifestyle travel and resort promotions; read event copy before booking.

Reading area, PA

InnThrall is a private, sex-positive kinky B&B near Reading, PA - two luxury suites, Libertine Hall playspace, monthly socials, seasonal events, and 5-hour day/evening rentals. Established 2015; East Coast home since 2020.

Seattle, WA

Seattle nonprofit community dungeon and education hub on Capitol Hill - parties, classes, and socials on kinkcenter.org/calendar.

Alabaster, Alabama, United States, AL

Explore Leather Whip for whip cracking. Floggers, impact toys, Spanking Paddles for impact play and bondage kit, bdsm collars & bondage mask for role play. https://www.leatherbond.co/

Chicago, IL

LRA Chicago is a volunteer-operated 501(c)(3) nonprofit with 2,500+ sq ft of dungeon space, a non-alcoholic social bar area, and regular public education events for adults 19+ exploring kink and relationships.

Washington, DC

Producer of the DC Fetish Ball and related Mid-Atlantic nightlife - multi-level venue programming with dungeon and dance floors.

San Francisco, CA

Long-running Bay Area sex-positive collective with member-facing sites for Mission Control programming - often overlapping with Oakland/Berkeley producers who book adjacent venues.

Detroit, MI

Oblige is a 7,000 sq ft rope, kink, and art space in Detroit’s Milwaukee Junction - classes, rope jams, Performance & Play parties, munches, and equipped dungeon areas with community-forward programming.

Cleveland, OH

OhioSMART has been Cleveland's longest-running BDSM organization since 1995. 501c(7) non-profit. 19+ to join. Beyond its private dungeon, the group hosts munches, educational workshops, and outdoor activities - a solid choice for Ohio and Great Lakes kinksters seeking a vetted, inclusive community.

Oklahoma City metro, OK

18+ private BDSM and power-exchange community in the Oklahoma City area with a member dungeon, mandatory vetting and membership paths, recurring play parties and midweek dungeon nights, Ticketleap registration, and published guest and non-discrimination policies.

San Francisco, CA

1310 Mission Street playspace and venue - classes, parties, and producer rentals in a queer-, women-, POC-, and disabled-owned small business framing. Check paradox-sf.com for membership, hours, and door policies.

Philadelphia, PA

BDSM/Swinger sex-positive dance and play party at Pleasure Garden Club, first Friday of each month. Doors 8pm. Couples $60, Single Females $40, Single Males $120. Dress to impress - fetish, leather, latex, club-wear, or theme.

Albuquerque, NM

Albuquerque member-focused private dungeon on Modern Lifestyle - parties, kink school, munches, and rope nights. Membership required before most on-site events.

Philadelphia, PA

Philly's premier adult playground for swingers. "Rather run with the sinners than walk with the saints." Playrooms, lounge areas, dance floors. Membership: Single Females $20/yr, Couples $50/yr, Single Males $100/yr. Fri/Sat 9pm-3am.

Portland, OR

Sanctuary is a Portland (PDX) private membership dungeon and event space - local parties, classes, and socials on pdxsanctuary.com/calendar/.

Sarasota, FL

Sarasota Dark Temple offers a trauma-informed sacred kink space for Florida's Gulf Coast. With workshops, classes, and a Conscious Restoration Process for conflict resolution, it stands out for those seeking self-growth and community in a judgment-free environment.

Austin, TX

Monthly Sunday fetish and kink party at colette Austin, 6:30pm to 1:00am. 18+ with ID, no alcohol, $25 at the door. The ticket includes a temporary colette membership.

San Francisco, CA

San Francisco SoMa turnkey kink venue - dungeon nights, house parties, and ticketed local programming on Forbidden Tickets.

Portland, OR

Portland rental kink studio - online booking for private scenes and small shoots in a fixed, equipped space (rental venue, not pro-domme session retail).

Indianapolis, IN

Indy-area kink venue hosting play parties, contests, and regional rope events - including Indy Rope Expo - with membership and guest-list practices described on the official site.

Tukwila, WA

Puget Sound member dungeon in Tukwila - parties, workshops, and rope socials on subspaceseattle.com.

Rochester, NY

The Aphrodite Group (TAG) is a private, woman-owned, members-only BDSM club in Rochester, NY since 2016. Sat 7pm-1am. Currently relocating - monthly socials continue. Vetting socials to join. Single $35, plans from $30/mo.

Philadelphia, PA

The Aviary is Philadelphia's monthly fetish night - second Saturday of every month, 8pm-1am. 1315 Spruce St. $35 advance, $40 door. 18+. Front room, Newbie Room, Main Room, Playground, Aftercare Room. Proof of vaccination required.

Chicago, IL

The Chicago Rose is a volunteer-run BDSM dungeon in Rogers Park - education nights, social and play weekends, consent-forward policies, and optional private rentals supporting a diverse Chicago kink community (18+).

Seattle, WA

Seattle-area bookable kink studios - The Nest and The Roost - marketed for private rentals and small gatherings with online scheduling (community rental model, not pro-domme retail).

Washington DC, DC

The Crucible is a members-only 501(c)7 private club at 412 V Street NE, Washington, DC. Membership is $50/year. Dungeon 101 is the usual first-Friday outreach night. Local play nights and classes - not a convention.

Denver, CO

Denver’s large member-based kink club - recurring parties, education, and a permanent play space with published rules and membership orientation (community venue, not a pro-domme house).

New York, NY

Founded in 1971, TES is one of the oldest BDSM organizations in the US - munches, classes, workshops, and TES Fest in New Jersey.

New Orleans, LA

Bookable, fully equipped BDSM dungeon for short and overnight visits at The Prive in New Orleans - appointment-based scheduling, class menu (rope, impact, tantra, and more), and amenities tied to the clothing-optional members club context.

Arundel County, MD

The Honey Pot ranks among Maryland's most welcoming BDSM dungeons for LGBTQ+ community members. This Arundel County venue prioritizes consent coaching, safer kink practices, and a Safe Harbor Policy - making it a standout choice for anyone exploring kink in the Baltimore-Washington corridor.

Spring Grove, PA

The Korral is a private members-only, sex-positive club in Spring Grove, PA. Membership $50/year. Fri/Sat 7pm-2am. Monthly Kink Nights, heated pool, 18 themed rooms, BDSM hallway. Education-first, consent-mandatory.

Gastonia, NC

The LoftNC, LLC is a BDSM dungeon and social club in Gastonia, NC (Charlotte metro). For over a decade it has offered education, recurring social events, and a member-focused play space built on responsibility, integrity, confidentiality, and respect.

Nashville, TN

The Mark by CPI is Nashville's kink community center - a Tennessee non-profit with 6,000 sq. ft. in South Nashville. Open Fri/Sat 8pm-2am. First-Friday Welcome Munch and weekly classes welcome newcomers; membership ($40/6mo) required for play parties. ADA accessible, consent-based.

Houston, TX

Woman-owned Houston on-premise lifestyle (swingers-forward) clubs with themed nightly parties, 21+ membership, BYOB, and multiple play areas. Not a BDSM dungeon; confirm kink-friendly or fetish nights on pendulum.club before you visit.

Aurora, CO

Aurora / Denver metro BDSM club on Modern Lifestyle - play parties, rope/fire classes, orientations, and themed nights. Membership path on rackroomdenver.com.

Florida Panhandle, FL

The Vulgarians - dungeon & educational gatherings: 250+ vetted members across North Florida and the Panhandle. Annual consent class & screening, in-person or Zoom vetting, dedicated on-site dungeon. Play parties, classes (shibari, fire, wax, blowgun), workshops & more.

Orlando, FL

The Woodshed is Orlando's members-only private club dedicated to educating and building community for alternative lifestyles. Open Friday and Saturday evenings on Milner Blvd, it offers workshops, events, education, and a well-equipped play space in a judgment-free environment.

Dover Plains, NY

Lifestyle America Social Club (LASC) Inc. is a federally recognized 501(c)(3) nonprofit. The_LODGE is their Hudson Valley flagship venue - an education-first space for classes, Essential Education, consent-driven events, and community across NY, NJ, PA, CT, and MA.

Dover Plains, NY

Welcome to Lifestyle America Social Club Inc. Where Connection, Growth, and Celebration Come Together Our Purpose We exist to bridge generational gaps and create a space where connection, learning, and growth are at the heart of everything we do. Through vibrant discussions, idea-sharing, and meet-ups, we cultivate an environment where authentic relationships thrive. Whether you're a seasoned member or new to the scene, there's always room for you here. Our Mission Inclusivity is the name of the game. We aim to build a community where everyone can grow, share their stories, and connect—without fear of judgment. We celebrate diversity, encourage personal growth, and promote mutual respect. By doing so, we’re forging connections that transcend boundaries and honor individuality in every form. Our Events From laid-back munches to immersive educational workshops and unforgettable parties, we offer a delicious mix of events designed to help you connect, learn, and grow—no matter where you are on your journey. Each event is crafted to be an inclusive, safe space where you can kick back, meet like-minded individuals, and expand your horizons. We pride ourselves on creating spaces that aren't just about fun, but about fostering respect, joy, and open-mindedness. Whether you're a curious newbie or a seasoned pro, there's always something here for you to enjoy and explore. Let’s celebrate individuality and create some seriously unforgettable memories together! Member Values As a member, you gain access to exclusive spaces meant for deep connections. We believe trust, discretion, and consent are the backbone of our community, and we ask all members to uphold these values. Together, we’re building a community where everyone can thrive, be their authentic selves, and feel respected. Be Part of Our Journey At Lifestyle America Social Club Inc., we’re not just a group—we’re a community. A community built on respect, shared aspirations, and the desire to grow together. Whether you're here to learn, meet new people, or celebrate with friends, you’re always welcome to be part of our journey. Let’s make something extraordinary happen—together. Important Note For the safety and comfort of our members, we carefully manage access to our community spaces. Please note that we love anyone following us to keep up with what's going on with events but we only accept Friend requests from vetted active members . If you're interested in joining, we encourage you to follow us for updates on upcoming munches, events, and other opportunities to engage. For more details, visit our website and start your journey with us today! @LASC-TNG For those between 18-35, join our LASC-TNG Group. This dedicated space is all about connecting, building friendships, and celebrating shared journeys with others in your age range. We can't wait to welcome you into this fun, supportive group! LASC-HVLC Interested in becoming a member? Check out our Membership Application on the website. Better yet—come to one of our munches, get vetted, and dive into the heart of what makes us great! Follow Us Stay connected through our Private Facebook Group (Hudson Valley Lifestyle Club). Answer the questions, accept the rules, and you're in! Or join our Discord Server to stay in the loop on events, munches, and everything else. We look forward to seeing you at our next event, meeting, or just online. Keep in touch, stay involved, and let’s continue building a space filled with respect, growth, and unforgettable experiences. Cheers to what's next!

North Hollywood, CA

Los Angeles nonprofit kink education and community dungeon - classes, orientations, and member play nights on thresholdla.org/calendar.

San Francisco, CA

501(c)(3) leather, kink, and fetish education and social space on Folsom Street - calendar, rentals, and host expectations published on transform1060.org.

Des Moines & Omaha, IA

Consent-forward fetish play parties in Omaha, NE and Des Moines, IA - calendar and tickets on vortexparties.com.

Fredonia, NY

Women-run members club in Western NY - 11 playrooms, hot tub, pole, dance floor, BYOB; Saturdays.

Corrales, NM

Private Corrales-area members social - 21+, BYOB, themed RSVP nights; address after Orientation.

Pittsburgh, PA

Large Pittsburgh sex-positive nightclub (~15,000+ sq ft) - themed rooms, BDSM areas, Fri/Sat.

Astoria, NY

Long-running NYC-area on-premise club - BYOB, dance floor, playrooms, buffet; Thu-Sun.

New York, NY

Exclusive Manhattan members club - application and photo approval; no single men; strict dress code.

Cranston, RI

Large New England on-premise club (~8,000 sq ft), BYOB bar, private rooms, inclusive of swing and fetish communities.

Oklahoma City, OK

Oklahoma premier lifestyle club - 2nd & 4th Friday parties.

Euless, TX

12,000 sq ft DFW Eden chain - dance floor, playrooms, theme nights.

Oklahoma City, OK

9,000 sq ft Eden chain location - dance floor, playrooms, theme parties.

San Antonio, TX

11,000 sq ft Eden chain - same ownership as DFW and OKC.

Phoenix, AZ

Phoenix on-premise social club since 1996 - open 7 nights, dance floor, six playrooms, juice bar; no alcohol sold (AZ law).

San Bernardino, CA

Large on-premise swing club - 13,000+ sq ft, Wed-Sun, BYOB, buffet.

Des Moines, IA

6,500 sq ft members-only on-premise club - verification required.

Los Angeles, CA

Large LA swing club - 10,000+ sq ft, couples and single women, BYOB.

San Francisco, CA

SF on-premise party - pre-screened couples and single women, BYOB.

New York, NY

On-premise Manhattan swingers club - membership purchase online; also operates a Los Angeles location.

Portland, OR

Upscale 8,000 sq ft three-level Portland nightclub - bars, buffet, play spaces.

Tukwila, WA

~10,000 sq ft Seattle-area members club - LGBTQ+ welcoming.

Salisbury, MA

Members-only lifestyle nightclub off-premise (meet-and-greet) with dance floor, bars, and 15,000+ member network.

Austin, TX

Colette chain Austin - opened 2018, Shrine BDSM events host.

Dallas, TX

Colette chain location - upscale on-premise club, BYOB setups.

Houston, TX

Colette chain Houston location.

New Orleans, LA

Colette chain location - upscale on-premise club, BYOB, part of national brand.

San Antonio, TX

Former Player's Club - colette franchise location.

Seattle, WA

~14,000 sq ft venue - social side plus three floors of play space.

Houston, TX

Members-only dance club atmosphere - Modern Lifestyle.

Beaver Falls, PA

Established 2002 - 8,500 sq ft with 12 playrooms, buffet, BYOB bar, outdoor patio Fri/Sat.

Providence, RI

Loft-style on-premise club in a historic mill building - BYOB, dance floor, playrooms, dungeon area, lockers.

Knoxville, TN

Knoxville BYOB members-only lifestyle club at 815 S Central St - themed Fri/Sat parties; new-member tour required by 11 p.m. first visit.

Omaha, NE

Nebraska premium lifestyle club - registration and social verification required.

San Diego, CA

3,500 sq ft lifestyle and kink events space - private membership.

Phoenix, AZ

Phoenix private lifestyle lounge - Wed and Sat nights, membership through Modern Lifestyle, no alcohol sold on site.

Haysville, KS

Wichita-area private lifestyle club - dungeon space, themed Saturdays.

Edgewood, NM

Private venue expansion to 7,500 sq ft - BYOB, no phones on premises.

Glen Gardner, NJ

Central NJ ~7,800 sq ft venue - multiple playrooms, dance floor, BYOB bar; Fri/Sat late nights.

Hartford, CT

Long-running Connecticut on-premise club - three floors of playrooms, couples and single women, BYOB Saturday nights.

West Babylon, NY

Long Island on-premise club - DJ, dance floor, pole, bar, BDSM room, private and open play.

Reno, NV

Reno original lifestyle club - hot tub, DJ, upstairs play.

Dallas, TX

7,000 sq ft members boutique venue - Playhouse brand (Las Vegas sibling).

Las Vegas, NV

6,000+ sq ft members venue - DJ, private rooms, no alcohol sold.

San Francisco, CA

San Francisco adult nightclub at 220 Jones Street since 1996. Open Wednesday-Sunday. 18+. Membership optional. Official calendar on powerexchange.com.

El Paso, TX

El Paso on-premise social club - dress code, RV parking.

Whitney, NV

Established 1982 - 13,000 sq ft, pool, bars, live band.

Atlantic City, NJ

Massive NJ shore resort-style complex (~55,000 sq ft) with hotel, pools, multiple dance floors - Fri/Sat.

Littleton, CO

Colorado flagship club - 18,000 sq ft on 5 acres, lodge, restaurant, pools.

Emmaus, PA

Lehigh Valley small on-premise club - SLS registration required; Wed afternoon and Fri/Sat nights.

Hyattsville, MD

DC suburbs on-premise club - 501(c)(7) social club; dance floor, playrooms, bartenders for BYOB.

Philadelphia, PA

Members-only Philadelphia club - two hot tubs, BDSM room, dance floor, Wed and Fri/Sat hours.

Tulsa, OK

Tulsa on-premise lifestyle club at 5553 S Peoria Ave - themed parties, BYOB patio, large weekend crowds.

Liverpool, NY

Central NY lifestyle club - ticketing via SLS / Modern Lifestyle; verify permanent venue status.

Catonsville, MD

Catonsville on-premise lifestyle club. Friday 9pm-2am, Saturday 9pm-3am. Membership plus visit fees on tabulife.com.

San Diego, CA

San Diego licensed swingers club - pool, jacuzzi, dance floor; invitation system.

Oklahoma City, OK

Private membership dance club - orientation required.

Orrtanna, PA

Gettysburg-area three-floor on-premise club - buffet, jacuzzi, BYOB bars, overnight crash rooms.

New York, NY

Newer upscale Tribeca venue (~4,500 sq ft) - RSVP required; members-only swingers events.

Las Vegas, NV

Vegas club that sells alcohol - themed rooms, long hours.

Ronkonkoma, NY

Long Island lifestyle club - Fri & Sat late nights; verify relocation notices if any.

Brooklyn, NY

Brooklyn permanent venue for lifestyle events - bar, dance floor, BDSM room, open and private play.

Houston, TX

Established 2019 - large dance floor, DJ, playrooms, female-owned.

Houston, TX

Woman-owned Houston lifestyle club - multiple play areas.

Philadelphia, PA

South Philly on-premise club behind Purple Orchid - two bars, large dance floor, themed rooms, no phones.

Port Deposit, MD

Cecil County fenced property - ~25 themed rooms, pool, 20-person hot tub, dance floor, BYOB bar.

Kansas City, MO

Kansas City 8,000+ sq ft late-night lifestyle nightclub - pool, dance floor, cabanas; Saturday open until 5 a.m.

Mesa, AZ

Mesa private membership association (PMA) - Fri/Sat themed nights, live music; address shared with members.

Portland, OR

Portland legacy club since 1990 - ~10,000 sq ft, hot tubs, multiple levels.

Boise, ID

Treasure Valley private lifestyle club - dungeon and house party areas, BYOB.

Newport, PA

Central PA large-scale club - Roman-style hot tub (80 seats), 12 party rooms, dance stage, BYOB bar.

San Francisco, CA

387 Bay St swing club near Fisherman's Wharf - Fri/Sat 10pm-4am, registration required, BYOB bar service.

Las Vegas, NV

Las Vegas on-premise pool parties for couples and single women only - RSVP via site, Kasidie, SDC, or Quiver.

Terryville, CT

Newer on-premise club (opened late 2024) with 3,000+ sq ft, multiple playrooms, BYOB; single men Fridays only.