Caligula New York
Swing / lifestyle clubAstoria, NY
Long-running NYC-area on-premise club - BYOB, dance floor, playrooms, buffet; Thu-Sun.
This topic hub focuses on Single women welcome across our catalog. Tags are inferred from how venues describe themselves - BYOB, on-premise play, membership models, and who is welcome at the door. This directory slice lists 14 clubs that match your filters - on-premise venues, BYOB clubs, and members-only spaces.
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Astoria, NY
Long-running NYC-area on-premise club - BYOB, dance floor, playrooms, buffet; Thu-Sun.
New York, NY
Exclusive Manhattan members club - application and photo approval; no single men; strict dress code.
Los Angeles, CA
Large LA swing club - 10,000+ sq ft, couples and single women, BYOB.
San Francisco, CA
SF on-premise party - pre-screened couples and single women, BYOB.
Austin, TX
Colette chain Austin - opened 2018, Shrine BDSM events host.
Dallas, TX
Colette chain location - upscale on-premise club, BYOB setups.
Houston, TX
Colette chain Houston location.
New Orleans, LA
Colette chain location - upscale on-premise club, BYOB, part of national brand.
San Antonio, TX
Former Player's Club - colette franchise location.
Hartford, CT
Long-running Connecticut on-premise club - three floors of playrooms, couples and single women, BYOB Saturday nights.
Orrtanna, PA
Gettysburg-area three-floor on-premise club - buffet, jacuzzi, BYOB bars, overnight crash rooms.
Philadelphia, PA
South Philly on-premise club behind Purple Orchid - two bars, large dance floor, themed rooms, no phones.
San Francisco, CA
387 Bay St swing club near Fisherman's Wharf - Fri/Sat 10pm-4am, registration required, BYOB bar service.
Las Vegas, NV
Las Vegas on-premise pool parties for couples and single women only - RSVP via site, Kasidie, SDC, or Quiver.
Geographic matches from our events calendar; not every event is hosted at a listed club.