BDSM Events in Washington DC (2026 Guide)
If you are looking for BDSM events in Washington DC, this directory surfaces upcoming kink events, fetish-friendly gatherings, and educational workshops in one place. We focus on consent-forward, community-rooted listings you can scan by date.
About this region
Activity clusters around major metros across the state. You will often find munches and classes paired with larger weekend events and conventions. The calendar below is a practical snapshot—always verify details with organizers.
For broader discovery, explore nearby states and city hubs linked at the bottom of the page. That internal map helps search engines and readers alike understand how Washington DC fits into the wider East Coast kink ecosystem.
Calendar
Upcoming events
86 listings in this view
Rage, Anger Based Scenes and Ordeals with MonsingorX
Sep 15, 2026 · 8–9:30 PM
Washington, DC
Black Rose Tuesday Night Education
Sep 15, 2026 · 7:30 PM – 10:00 PM
Washington, DC
Black Rose Munch
Sep 15, 2026 · 6:30–8 PM
Washington, DC
The Queer Dude's Party
Sep 16, 2026 · 8:00 PM – 11:59 PM
Washington, DC
DC After Dark Happy Hour
Sep 17, 2026 · 6:30–10:00 PM
Washington, DC
LOBO Presents: Animal Haus
Sep 18, 2026 · 9:00 PM – 2:00 AM
Washington, DC
Black and Kinky — FETELIFE / CARNIVAL
Sep 19, 2026 · 9:00 PM – 2:00 AM
Washington, DC
Crucible Rope Share
Sep 20, 2026 · 4:00 PM – 7:00 PM
Washington, DC
Making Waves — Impact Skill Share
Sep 20, 2026 · 1:00 PM – 3:00 PM
Washington, DC
I Want To, But I Can’t with Meredith
Sep 22, 2026 · 8–9:30 PM
Washington, DC
Black Rose Tuesday Night Education
Sep 22, 2026 · 7:30 PM – 10:00 PM
Washington, DC
Black Rose Munch
Sep 22, 2026 · 6:30–8 PM
Washington, DC
DC After Dark Happy Hour
Sep 24, 2026 · 6:30–10:00 PM
Washington, DC
New and Curious Kinksters
Sep 24, 2026 · 6:30–8 PM
Washington, DC
Crucible Rendezvous
Sep 24, 2026 · 8:00 PM – 11:59 PM
Washington, DC
BR Presents: September 2026
Sep 25, 2026 · 9–11:30 PM
Washington, DC
Black Rose Social
Sep 25, 2026 · 9:00 PM – 2:00 AM
Washington, DC
Masqué: Black Swan Theory
Sep 26, 2026
Washington, DC
Crucible Work Day
Sep 26, 2026 · 2:00 PM – 6:00 PM
Washington, DC
Blush
Sep 26, 2026 · 9:00 PM – 2:00 AM
Washington, DC
Crucible Gamers & Crafternoon
Sep 27, 2026 · 2:00 PM – 8:00 PM
Washington, DC
Black Rose Tuesday Night Education
Sep 29, 2026 · 7:30 PM – 10:00 PM
Washington, DC
Black Rose Munch
Sep 29, 2026 · 6:30–8 PM
Washington, DC
DC After Dark Happy Hour
Oct 1, 2026 · 6:30–10:00 PM
Washington, DC
Black Rose Gateway
Oct 1, 2026 · 7:30 PM – 10:00 PM
Washington, DC
BR Gateway – October 2026
Oct 1, 2026 · 7:45–9:30 PM
Washington, DC
Dungeon 101
Oct 2, 2026 · 7:30–11:59 PM
Washington, DC
Dungeon 101
Oct 2, 2026 · 7:30 PM – 2:00 AM
Washington, DC
Sinfully Naughty
Oct 3, 2026 · 9:00 PM – 2:00 AM
Washington, DC
Hitchin' Bitches
Oct 4, 2026 · 1:00 PM – 4:00 PM
Washington, DC
Matriarxy
Oct 4, 2026 · 5:00 PM – 8:00 PM
Washington, DC
Feed Your Senses: Exploring Food Play with Temptress Mango
Oct 6, 2026 · 8–9:30 PM
Washington, DC
Black Rose Tuesday Night Education
Oct 6, 2026 · 7:30 PM – 10:00 PM
Washington, DC
Black Rose Munch
Oct 6, 2026 · 6:30–8 PM
Washington, DC
QINK
Oct 9, 2026 · 9:00 PM – 2:00 AM
Washington, DC
RISQUE
Oct 10, 2026 · 9:00 PM – 2:00 AM
Washington, DC
DC Fetish Ball
Oct 11, 2026
Washington, DC
Pony Meet Up
Oct 11, 2026 · 2:00 PM – 6:00 PM
Washington, DC
Black Rose Tuesday Night Education
Oct 13, 2026 · 7:30 PM – 10:00 PM
Washington, DC
Black Rose Munch
Oct 13, 2026 · 6:30–8 PM
Washington, DC
Owning Your Power: Femme Sadism with Bluejai
Oct 13, 2026 · 8–9:30 PM
Washington, DC
The Queer Dude's Party
Oct 14, 2026 · 8:00 PM – 11:59 PM
Washington, DC
LOBO Presents: Animal Haus
Oct 16, 2026 · 9:00 PM – 2:00 AM
Washington, DC
Crucible Work Day
Oct 17, 2026 · 2:00 PM – 6:00 PM
Washington, DC
Bruise
Oct 17, 2026 · 9:00 PM – 2:00 AM
Washington, DC
Crucible Rope Share
Oct 18, 2026 · 4:00 PM – 7:00 PM
Washington, DC
Consensual Brutality with Sasquatch
Oct 20, 2026 · 8–9:30 PM
Washington, DC
Black Rose Munch
Oct 20, 2026 · 6:30–8 PM
Washington, DC
Black Rose Tuesday Night Education
Oct 20, 2026 · 7:30 PM – 10:00 PM
Washington, DC
New and Curious Kinksters
Oct 22, 2026 · 6:30–8 PM
Washington, DC
Crucible Rendezvous
Oct 22, 2026 · 8:00 PM – 11:59 PM
Washington, DC
Black and Kinky — PERUSE — BnK Open Play
Oct 23, 2026 · 9:00 PM – 2:00 AM
Washington, DC
Crucible Gamers & Crafternoon
Oct 25, 2026 · 2:00 PM – 8:00 PM
Washington, DC
Black Rose Munch
Oct 27, 2026 · 6:30–8 PM
Washington, DC
Black Rose Tuesday Night Education
Oct 27, 2026 · 7:30 PM – 10:00 PM
Washington, DC
CAPDL Kinkgarten
Oct 29, 2026 · 8:00 PM – 11:30 PM
Washington, DC
Black Rose Social
Oct 30, 2026 · 9:00 PM – 2:00 AM
Washington, DC
Crucible Halloween Party
Oct 31, 2026 · 9:00 PM – 2:00 AM
Washington, DC
Hitchin' Bitches
Nov 1, 2026 · 1:00 PM – 4:00 PM
Washington, DC
Black Rose Tuesday Night Education
Nov 3, 2026 · 7:30 PM – 10:00 PM
Washington, DC
Black Rose Munch
Nov 3, 2026 · 6:30–8 PM
Washington, DC
Black Rose Gateway
Nov 5, 2026 · 7:30 PM – 10:00 PM
Washington, DC
BR Gateway – November 2026
Nov 5, 2026 · 7:45–9:30 PM
Washington, DC
Dungeon 101
Nov 6, 2026 · 7:30–11:59 PM
Washington, DC
Dungeon 101
Nov 6, 2026 · 7:30 PM – 2:00 AM
Washington, DC
Sinfully Naughty
Nov 7, 2026 · 9:00 PM – 2:00 AM
Washington, DC
Matriarxy
Nov 8, 2026 · 5:00 PM – 8:00 PM
Washington, DC
Pony Meet Up
Nov 8, 2026 · 2:00 PM – 6:00 PM
Washington, DC
Black Rose Munch
Nov 10, 2026 · 6:30–8 PM
Washington, DC
Black Rose Tuesday Night Education
Nov 10, 2026 · 7:30 PM – 10:00 PM
Washington, DC
The Queer Dude's Party
Nov 11, 2026 · 8:00 PM – 11:59 PM
Washington, DC
QINK
Nov 13, 2026 · 9:00 PM – 2:00 AM
Washington, DC
Crucible Rope — Holiday Lights Bondage
Nov 14, 2026 · 1:00 PM – 6:00 PM
Washington, DC
RISQUE
Nov 14, 2026 · 9:00 PM – 2:00 AM
Washington, DC
Crucible Rope Share
Nov 15, 2026 · 4:00 PM – 7:00 PM
Washington, DC
Black Rose Munch
Nov 17, 2026 · 6:30–8 PM
Washington, DC
Black Rose Munch
Nov 24, 2026 · 6:30–8 PM
Washington, DC
Black Rose Munch
Dec 1, 2026 · 6:30–8 PM
Washington, DC
BR Gateway – December 2026
Dec 3, 2026 · 7:45–9:30 PM
Washington, DC
Dungeon 101
Dec 4, 2026 · 7:30–11:59 PM
Washington, DC
Masqué: Obsession
Dec 5, 2026
Washington, DC
Black Rose Munch
Dec 8, 2026 · 6:30–8 PM
Washington, DC
Black Rose Munch
Dec 15, 2026 · 6:30–8 PM
Washington, DC
Black Rose Munch
Dec 22, 2026 · 6:30–8 PM
Washington, DC
Black Rose Munch
Dec 29, 2026 · 6:30–8 PM
Washington, DC
Dungeon 101
Jan 1, 2027 · 7:30–11:59 PM
Washington, DC
Dungeons & kink venues
Black Rose
Community OrganizationWashington, DC
Washington, D.C. BDSM education and social organization. Official calendar on br.org. Many in-person nights are at The Crucible.
Metro Underground / DC Fetish Ball
Venue & ProducerWashington, DC
Producer of the DC Fetish Ball and related Mid-Atlantic nightlife—multi-level venue programming with dungeon and dance floors.
The Crucible
BDSM DungeonWashington DC, DC
The Crucible is a members-only 501(c)7 private club at 412 V Street NE, Washington, DC. Membership is $50/year. Dungeon 101 is the usual first-Friday outreach night. Local play nights and classes — not a convention.