BDSM play party events in California (2026)
If you are looking for play party BDSM events in California, this page lists upcoming listings that match that tag alongside Play party. These events take place across major metros across the state and range from social meetups to structured play and education.
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45 listings in this view
DommeNation - We are good, but we’re no angels…
Sep 26, 2026 · Sat · 9:00 PM-Sep 27, 2026 2:00 AM PT
North Hollywood, CA
SF Cumunion Folsom Edition
2026-09-26 20:00-2026-09-27 02:00 PT
San Francisco, CA
SF Cumunion Folsom Edition
2026-09-27 15:00-2026-09-28 00:00 PT
San Francisco, CA
Naked Mondays
2026-09-28 20:00-2026-09-29 00:00 PT
San Francisco, CA
October House Party - on Every First Friday!
Oct 2, 2026 · Fri · 8:00 PM-Oct 3 1:00 AM (San Francisco)
San Francisco, CA
$10 before 10
Oct 2, 2026 · Fri · 9:00 PM-Oct 3 2:00 AM PT
North Hollywood, CA
Backroom Bros.
2026-10-02 20:30-2026-10-03 00:30 PT
San Francisco, CA
SF Cumunion Party
2026-10-03 20:00-2026-10-04 02:00 PT
San Francisco, CA
Naked Mondays
2026-10-05 20:00-2026-10-06 00:00 PT
San Francisco, CA
PRIDE!
Oct 9, 2026 · Fri · 9:00 PM-Oct 10 2:00 AM PT
North Hollywood, CA
Sharps Salon
Oct 10, 2026 · Sat · 12:30 PM-5:00 PM PT
North Hollywood, CA
Dungeon Crawlers ABDL Party
2026-10-10 13:00-17:00 PT
San Francisco, CA
SOAP (Social of Age Players) @ Threshold
Oct 11, 2026 · Sun · 1:00 PM-6:00 PM PT
North Hollywood, CA
Fist Buds
2026-10-11 14:00-19:00 PT
San Francisco, CA
Naked Mondays
2026-10-12 20:00-2026-10-13 00:00 PT
San Francisco, CA
Freestyle
Oct 16, 2026 · Fri · 9:00 PM-Oct 17 2:00 AM PT
North Hollywood, CA
Service & Suffering: A D/s Party
Oct 17, 2026 · Sat · 9:00 PM-Oct 18 2:00 AM PT
Los Angeles, CA
Naked Mondays
2026-10-19 20:00-2026-10-20 00:00 PT
San Francisco, CA
Flirt & Squirt - Queer Leather Dungeon Night (October)
Oct 20, 2026 · Tue · 7:00 PM-11:00 PM (San Francisco)
San Francisco, CA
BEARUNION
2026-10-22 20:00-2026-10-23 01:00 PT
San Francisco, CA
Taboo - An Edgeplay Party
Oct 23, 2026 · Fri · 9:00 PM-Oct 24 2:00 AM PT
North Hollywood, CA
DommeNation - We are good, but we’re no angels…
Oct 24, 2026 · Sat · 9:00 PM-Oct 25 2:00 AM PT
North Hollywood, CA
Naked Mondays
2026-10-26 20:00-2026-10-27 00:00 PT
San Francisco, CA
Naked Mondays
2026-11-02 20:00-2026-11-03 00:00 PT
San Francisco, CA
November House Party - on Every First Friday!
Nov 6, 2026 · Fri · 8:00 PM-Nov 7 1:00 AM (San Francisco)
San Francisco, CA
Backroom Bros.
2026-11-06 20:30-2026-11-07 00:30 PT
San Francisco, CA
SF Cumunion Party
2026-11-07 20:00-2026-11-08 02:00 PT
San Francisco, CA
Fist Buds
2026-11-08 14:00-19:00 PT
San Francisco, CA
Naked Mondays
2026-11-09 20:00-2026-11-10 00:00 PT
San Francisco, CA
Dungeon Crawlers ABDL Party
2026-11-14 13:00-17:00 PT
San Francisco, CA
Naked Mondays
2026-11-16 20:00-2026-11-17 00:00 PT
San Francisco, CA
Flirt & Squirt - Queer Leather Dungeon Night (November)
Nov 17, 2026 · Tue · 7:00 PM-11:00 PM (San Francisco)
San Francisco, CA
Naked Mondays
2026-11-23 20:00-2026-11-24 00:00 PT
San Francisco, CA
BEARUNION
2026-11-26 20:00-2026-11-27 01:00 PT
San Francisco, CA
Naked Mondays
2026-11-30 20:00-2026-12-01 00:00 PT
San Francisco, CA
December House Party - on Every First Friday!
Dec 4, 2026 · Fri · 8:00 PM-Dec 5 1:00 AM (San Francisco)
San Francisco, CA
Backroom Bros.
2026-12-04 20:30-2026-12-05 00:30 PT
San Francisco, CA
SF Cumunion Party
2026-12-05 20:00-2026-12-06 02:00 PT
San Francisco, CA
Naked Mondays
2026-12-07 20:00-2026-12-08 00:00 PT
San Francisco, CA
Dungeon Crawlers ABDL Party
2026-12-12 13:00-17:00 PT
San Francisco, CA
Fist Buds
2026-12-13 14:00-19:00 PT
San Francisco, CA
Naked Mondays
2026-12-14 20:00-2026-12-15 00:00 PT
San Francisco, CA
Flirt & Squirt - Queer Leather Dungeon Night (December)
Dec 15, 2026 · Tue · 7:00 PM-11:00 PM (San Francisco)
San Francisco, CA
Naked Mondays
2026-12-21 20:00-2026-12-22 00:00 PT
San Francisco, CA
Naked Mondays
2026-12-28 20:00-2026-12-29 00:00 PT
San Francisco, CA
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