BDSM Events in California (2026 Guide)
If you are looking for BDSM events in California, this directory surfaces upcoming kink events, fetish-friendly gatherings, and educational workshops in one place. We focus on consent-forward, community-rooted listings you can scan by date.
About this region
Activity clusters around major metros across the state. You will often find munches and classes paired with larger weekend events and conventions. The calendar below is a practical snapshot - always verify details with organizers.
For broader discovery, explore nearby states and city hubs linked at the bottom of the page. That internal map helps search engines and readers alike understand how California fits into the wider East Coast kink ecosystem.
Calendar
Upcoming events
126 listings in this view
After Folsom Fuck Fest
Sep 27, 2026 · 6:00 PM - 3:00 AM
San Francisco, CA
Her Fantasy Sexy Schoolgirl at Twist
2026-09-27
San Francisco, CA
Her Fantasy Party at Twist
2026-09-27
San Francisco, CA
SF Cumunion Folsom Edition
2026-09-27 15:00-2026-09-28 00:00 PT
San Francisco, CA
Naked Mondays
2026-09-28 20:00-2026-09-29 00:00 PT
San Francisco, CA
Couples Erotic Yoga class
2026-09-30
San Francisco, CA
Sensation: At Sanctuary Studios
Wed, Sep 30, 2026
Los Angeles, CA
HUMP NIGHT
2026-09-30
San Francisco, CA
Casual Encounters
Oct 1, 2026 · 9:00 PM - 3:00 AM
San Francisco, CA
Sex Games at Club Joi
2026-10-01
Los Angeles, CA
Twist + Bronze - Young Swingers
2026-10-02
San Francisco, CA
Pussy Galore Friday at Club Joi
2026-10-02
Los Angeles, CA
October House Party - on Every First Friday!
Oct 2, 2026 · Fri · 8:00 PM-Oct 3 1:00 AM (San Francisco)
San Francisco, CA
Young Swingers at Twist!
2026-10-02
San Francisco, CA
$10 before 10
Oct 2, 2026 · Fri · 9:00 PM-Oct 3 2:00 AM PT
North Hollywood, CA
Backroom Bros.
2026-10-02 20:30-2026-10-03 00:30 PT
San Francisco, CA
First Friday Fuck Fest
Oct 2, 2026 · 9:00 PM - 4:00 AM
San Francisco, CA
VEIL
Oct 3, 2026 · 9:00 PM - 5:00 AM
San Francisco, CA
Pussy Galore at Club Joi
2026-10-03
Los Angeles, CA
Twist Couples Saturday
2026-10-03
San Francisco, CA
Engage: Faewilde
Sat, Oct 3, 2026
West Hollywood, CA
SF Cumunion Party
2026-10-03 20:00-2026-10-04 02:00 PT
San Francisco, CA
Come Down
Oct 4, 2026 · 9:00 PM - 3:00 AM
San Francisco, CA
Her Fantasy Autumn Kink at Twist
2026-10-04
San Francisco, CA
Naked Mondays
2026-10-05 20:00-2026-10-06 00:00 PT
San Francisco, CA
Couples Erotic Yoga class
2026-10-07
San Francisco, CA
PRIDE!
Oct 9, 2026 · Fri · 9:00 PM-Oct 10 2:00 AM PT
North Hollywood, CA
Daisy Dukes Friday at Club Joi
2026-10-09
Los Angeles, CA
Twist Plus Party
2026-10-09
San Francisco, CA
Twist Couples Saturday
2026-10-10
San Francisco, CA
Daisy Dukes at Club Joi
2026-10-10
Los Angeles, CA
Sharps Salon
Oct 10, 2026 · Sat · 12:30 PM-5:00 PM PT
North Hollywood, CA
Dungeon Crawlers ABDL Party
2026-10-10 13:00-17:00 PT
San Francisco, CA
SOAP (Social of Age Players) @ Threshold
Oct 11, 2026 · Sun · 1:00 PM-6:00 PM PT
North Hollywood, CA
LFN Sunday Event @ Club Joi
2026-10-11
Los Angeles, CA
Her Fantasy Hotwives at Twist
2026-10-11
San Francisco, CA
BDSM 101 Class
Oct 11, 2026 · Sun · 3:00 PM-5:00 PM PT
North Hollywood, CA
Fist Buds
2026-10-11 14:00-19:00 PT
San Francisco, CA
Naked Mondays
2026-10-12 20:00-2026-10-13 00:00 PT
San Francisco, CA
Couples Erotic Yoga class
2026-10-14
San Francisco, CA
Sensation: At Devil Mask Studios
Thu, Oct 15, 2026
Los Angeles, CA
Emo-Black Friday at Club Joi
2026-10-16
Los Angeles, CA
Twist Plus Party
2026-10-16
San Francisco, CA
Freestyle
Oct 16, 2026 · Fri · 9:00 PM-Oct 17 2:00 AM PT
North Hollywood, CA
Emo-The Black Party at Club Joi
2026-10-17
Los Angeles, CA
Twist Couples Saturday
2026-10-17
San Francisco, CA
Service & Suffering: A D/s Party
Oct 17, 2026 · Sat · 9:00 PM-Oct 18 2:00 AM PT
Los Angeles, CA
Naked Mondays
2026-10-19 20:00-2026-10-20 00:00 PT
San Francisco, CA
Flirt & Squirt - Queer Leather Dungeon Night (October)
Oct 20, 2026 · Tue · 7:00 PM-11:00 PM (San Francisco)
San Francisco, CA
Couples Erotic Yoga class
2026-10-21
San Francisco, CA
BEARUNION
2026-10-22 20:00-2026-10-23 01:00 PT
San Francisco, CA
Taboo - An Edgeplay Party
Oct 23, 2026 · Fri · 9:00 PM-Oct 24 2:00 AM PT
North Hollywood, CA
Twist Plus Party
2026-10-23
San Francisco, CA
Halloween Kickoff at Club Joi
2026-10-23
Los Angeles, CA
Entrance: A Newbie Experience
Fri, Oct 23, 2026
West Hollywood, CA
Engage: After Dark
Fri, Oct 23, 2026
West Hollywood, CA
Dark Odyssey Surrender 2026
Oct 23-26, 2026
San Jose, CA
DommeNation - We are good, but we’re no angels…
Oct 24, 2026 · Sat · 9:00 PM-Oct 25 2:00 AM PT
North Hollywood, CA
Twist Couples Saturday
2026-10-24
San Francisco, CA
Halloween Main Event at Club Joi
2026-10-24
Los Angeles, CA
Bronze Halloween Kickoff at Twist
2026-10-24
San Francisco, CA
Her Fantasy Party at Twist
2026-10-25
San Francisco, CA
Her Fantasy Halloween at Twist
2026-10-25
San Francisco, CA
Naked Mondays
2026-10-26 20:00-2026-10-27 00:00 PT
San Francisco, CA
Board Games & Bondage (October)
Oct 28, 2026 · Wed · 7:00 PM-11:00 PM (San Francisco)
San Francisco, CA
Nerdgasm
Oct 28, 2026 · Wed · 7:00 PM-Oct 29 12:00 AM PT
North Hollywood, CA
Couples Erotic Yoga class
2026-10-28
San Francisco, CA
LDG Leathermen’s Discussion Group
2026-10-28 19:30-21:30 PT
San Francisco, CA
Twist Plus Party
2026-10-30
San Francisco, CA
The Night Before Halloween at Club Joi
2026-10-30
Los Angeles, CA
30th Annual Naughty Halloween Ball
Oct 31, 2026 · 9:00 PM - 6:00 AM
San Francisco, CA
Halloween Night at Club Joi
2026-10-31
Los Angeles, CA
Twist Couples Saturday
2026-10-31
San Francisco, CA
Halloween Ball at Danzhaus San Francisco
2026-10-31
San Francisco, CA
LFN Sunday Halloween Event @ Club Joi
2026-11-01
Los Angeles, CA
Naked Mondays
2026-11-02 20:00-2026-11-03 00:00 PT
San Francisco, CA
Couples Erotic Yoga class
2026-11-04
San Francisco, CA
80's Friday Night at Club Joi
2026-11-06
Los Angeles, CA
November House Party - on Every First Friday!
Nov 6, 2026 · Fri · 8:00 PM-Nov 7 1:00 AM (San Francisco)
San Francisco, CA
Backroom Bros.
2026-11-06 20:30-2026-11-07 00:30 PT
San Francisco, CA
SF Cumunion Party
2026-11-07 20:00-2026-11-08 02:00 PT
San Francisco, CA
Young Couples Night at Club Joi
2026-11-07
Los Angeles, CA
Fist Buds
2026-11-08 14:00-19:00 PT
San Francisco, CA
Her Fantasy Hotwives at Twist
2026-11-08
San Francisco, CA
Threshold Business Meeting - Members Only (ZOOM)
Nov 8, 2026 · Sun · 7:00 PM-9:00 PM PT
Los Angeles, CA
Naked Mondays
2026-11-09 20:00-2026-11-10 00:00 PT
San Francisco, CA
Sexy Karaoke Thursday at Club Joi
2026-11-12
Los Angeles, CA
Micro Mini Friday at Club Joi
2026-11-13
Los Angeles, CA
Connections: Speed Friending + Party
Fri, Nov 13, 2026
West Hollywood, CA
Micro Mini at Club Joi
2026-11-14
Los Angeles, CA
Dungeon Crawlers ABDL Party
2026-11-14 13:00-17:00 PT
San Francisco, CA
Naked Mondays
2026-11-16 20:00-2026-11-17 00:00 PT
San Francisco, CA
Flirt & Squirt - Queer Leather Dungeon Night (November)
Nov 17, 2026 · Tue · 7:00 PM-11:00 PM (San Francisco)
San Francisco, CA
Board Games & Bondage (November)
Nov 18, 2026 · Wed · 7:00 PM-11:00 PM (San Francisco)
San Francisco, CA
Sensation: At Devil Mask Studios
Thu, Nov 19, 2026
Los Angeles, CA
Steal His Shirt Friday at Club Joi
2026-11-20
Los Angeles, CA
Steal His Shirt at Club Joi
2026-11-21
Los Angeles, CA
Her Fantasy Spicy Ladies at Twist
2026-11-22
San Francisco, CA
Naked Mondays
2026-11-23 20:00-2026-11-24 00:00 PT
San Francisco, CA
LDG Leathermen’s Discussion Group
2026-11-25 19:30-21:30 PT
San Francisco, CA
Bronze B4 the Feast at Twist
2026-11-25
San Francisco, CA
BEARUNION
2026-11-26 20:00-2026-11-27 01:00 PT
San Francisco, CA
TASTE: Tast-er Booths
Fri, Nov 27, 2026
West Hollywood, CA
Lingerie Friday at Club Joi
2026-11-27
Los Angeles, CA
The Lingerie Party at Club Joi
2026-11-28
Los Angeles, CA
Naked Mondays
2026-11-30 20:00-2026-12-01 00:00 PT
San Francisco, CA
December House Party - on Every First Friday!
Dec 4, 2026 · Fri · 8:00 PM-Dec 5 1:00 AM (San Francisco)
San Francisco, CA
Backroom Bros.
2026-12-04 20:30-2026-12-05 00:30 PT
San Francisco, CA
SF Cumunion Party
2026-12-05 20:00-2026-12-06 02:00 PT
San Francisco, CA
Her Fantasy Holiday Kickoff at Twist
2026-12-06
San Francisco, CA
Naked Mondays
2026-12-07 20:00-2026-12-08 00:00 PT
San Francisco, CA
Entrance: A Newbie Experience
Fri, Dec 11, 2026
West Hollywood, CA
Engage: After Dark
Fri, Dec 11, 2026
West Hollywood, CA
Dungeon Crawlers ABDL Party
2026-12-12 13:00-17:00 PT
San Francisco, CA
12th Annual Mrs. Clause is Bi at Twist
2026-12-12
San Francisco, CA
Fist Buds
2026-12-13 14:00-19:00 PT
San Francisco, CA
Naked Mondays
2026-12-14 20:00-2026-12-15 00:00 PT
San Francisco, CA
Flirt & Squirt - Queer Leather Dungeon Night (December)
Dec 15, 2026 · Tue · 7:00 PM-11:00 PM (San Francisco)
San Francisco, CA
Board Games & Bondage (December)
Dec 16, 2026 · Wed · 7:00 PM-11:00 PM (San Francisco)
San Francisco, CA
Sensation: At Devil Mask Studios
Thu, Dec 17, 2026
Los Angeles, CA
Her Fantasy Holiday Kickoff at Twist
2026-12-20
San Francisco, CA
Naked Mondays
2026-12-21 20:00-2026-12-22 00:00 PT
San Francisco, CA
LDG Leathermen’s Discussion Group
2026-12-23 19:30-21:30 PT
San Francisco, CA
Naked Mondays
2026-12-28 20:00-2026-12-29 00:00 PT
San Francisco, CA
"Barely" NYE Erotic Ball 2027 at Danzhaus San Francisco
2026-12-31
San Francisco, CA
Northwest Leather Celebration 2027
Apr 29-May 2, 2027
Sacramento, CA
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