BDSM Events in California (2026 Guide)

If you are looking for BDSM events in California, this directory surfaces upcoming kink events, fetish-friendly gatherings, and educational workshops in one place. We focus on consent-forward, community-rooted listings you can scan by date.

About this region

Activity clusters around major metros across the state. You will often find munches and classes paired with larger weekend events and conventions. The calendar below is a practical snapshot - always verify details with organizers.

For broader discovery, explore nearby states and city hubs linked at the bottom of the page. That internal map helps search engines and readers alike understand how California fits into the wider East Coast kink ecosystem.

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Upcoming events

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Sexy Karaoke Thursday at Club Joi

2026-11-12

Los Angeles, CA

Upcoming events

Sexy Karaoke Thursday at Club Joi

Twist Plus Party

Micro Mini Friday at Club Joi

Connections: Speed Friending + Party

FRIENDS WITH BENEFITS

Dungeon Crawlers ABDL Party

Micro Mini at Club Joi

Naked Mondays

Flirt & Squirt - Queer Leather Dungeon Night (November)

Board Games & Bondage (November)

Sensation: At Devil Mask Studios

Steal His Shirt Friday at Club Joi

SPANXXXGIVING

Steal His Shirt at Club Joi

Her Fantasy Spicy Ladies at Twist

Northwest Leather Celebration 2027

Dungeons & kink venues