Massachusetts kink events, places, vendors, and education

Club Sinz

Salisbury, MA

Members-only lifestyle nightclub off-premise (meet-and-greet) with dance floor, bars, and 15,000+ member network.

Flogging Farmers

Online · tables at local events

We’re Flogging Farmers, makers of handcrafted birch floggers and impact toys built to feel as good in your hand as they do in play. Every piece is made with an eye for balance, durability, and a beautiful finish, because we believe a well-made toy!

EF Leather

Online · tables at local events

EF Leather specializes in high-quality impact toys including floggers, kangaroo-handled whips, nylon whips, galley whips, cat o’ nine tails, and leather goods. They describe a focus on precision, craftsmanship, and authenticity, with offerings that include vending, demonstrations, and educational classes..

Kinky Elf Toys

Online · tables at local events

Kinky Elf Toys describes themselves as a designer, builder, and manufacturer of BDSM toys, implements, and furniture - ranging from sensual to more intense styles. They note expanding from paddles into a wider range of implements and dungeon furniture..

What Is Primal Play? The Kink That Makes Room for Instinct

Community · 10 min read

For some, “primal” describes a chase, a struggle or a moment of wordless connection. For others, it is an identity. Behind the language of wildness is a surprisingly deliberate practice.

Masochism 201: One Step Further

Techniques · 8 min read

How to add one harder element to impact play after hand spanking is already predictable, and which tools are still too soon.

Masochism 101: Agreed Pain

Techniques · 8 min read

What agreed pain is, where a first spank should and should not land, and how to stop it.

Masochism 301: Fear, Humiliation, and High-Risk Play

Techniques · 8 min read

How adults plan fear, humiliation, and pretend resistance, and which activities this article will not teach.