Looking for members-only clubs and dungeons in New York? This combined filter surfaces venues tagged for that theme while located in New York (or matching our registry for that state). This directory slice lists 2 spaces that match your filters—nonprofits, private clubs, and hybrid venues.
Regional density varies: some states have several nonprofits; others rely on traveling events or neighboring metros. Check individual pages for exact cities and whether addresses are public or released after registration.
Upcoming events below are filtered to the same state so you can align travel with parties, classes, or cons that week. Vendors and education guides in related links support safer gear choices and skills before you play.
Tags are heuristic; verify on official channels. We will continue tuning coverage for 2026 as spaces update programming.
Hudson Valley, NY
Welcome to The Ascend Hudson Valley Community - A nurturing space for consenting adults in the kink and alternative lifestyle community. We foster a risk-aware, consensual kink (RACK) community in the Hudson Valley.
Rochester, NY
The Aphrodite Group (TAG) is a private, woman-owned, members-only BDSM club in Rochester, NY since 2016. Sat 7pm–1am. Currently relocating—monthly socials continue. Vetting socials to join. Single $35, plans from $30/mo.
Geographic matches from our events calendar; not every event is hosted at a listed venue.
