BDSM Events in Oklahoma (2026 Guide)
If you are looking for BDSM events in Oklahoma, this directory surfaces upcoming kink events, fetish-friendly gatherings, and educational workshops in one place. We focus on consent-forward, community-rooted listings you can scan by date.
About this region
Activity clusters around major metros across the state. You will often find munches and classes paired with larger weekend events and conventions. The calendar below is a practical snapshot - always verify details with organizers.
For broader discovery, explore nearby states and city hubs linked at the bottom of the page. That internal map helps search engines and readers alike understand how Oklahoma fits into the wider East Coast kink ecosystem.
Calendar
Upcoming events
28 listings in this view
Onyx A Wicked Affair
2026-10-02
Oklahoma City, OK
Midnight Masquerade a Erotic Ball
2026-10-03
Oklahoma City, OK
Mr. SamanthaJ Birthday Bash (Weekend Pass Available)
2026-10-09
Oklahoma City, OK
Sexy in Pink / Topless Night
2026-10-10
Oklahoma City, OK
Pretty in Pink
2026-10-10
Oklahoma City, OK
Swinger Things An Amethyst Soiree
2026-10-16
Oklahoma City, OK
Freakers Ball / Halloween Night
2026-10-24
Oklahoma City, OK
Little Black Dress / No Panties Night
2026-11-07
Oklahoma City, OK
Dirty Prom Night
2026-11-21
Oklahoma City, OK
Saturday Night Party
2026-12-05
Oklahoma City, OK
Saturday Night Party
2026-12-19
Oklahoma City, OK
New Year's Eve Party
2026-12-31
Oklahoma City, OK
Saturday Night Party
2027-01-02
Oklahoma City, OK
Saturday Night Party
2027-01-16
Oklahoma City, OK
Saturday Night Party
2027-01-30
Oklahoma City, OK
Saturday Night Party
2027-02-13
Oklahoma City, OK
Saturday Night Party
2027-02-27
Oklahoma City, OK
Saturday Night Party
2027-03-13
Oklahoma City, OK
Saturday Night Party
2027-03-27
Oklahoma City, OK
Saturday Night Party
2027-04-10
Oklahoma City, OK
Saturday Night Party
2027-04-24
Oklahoma City, OK
Saturday Night Party
2027-05-08
Oklahoma City, OK
Saturday Night Party
2027-05-22
Oklahoma City, OK
Saturday Night Party
2027-06-05
Oklahoma City, OK
Saturday Night Party
2027-06-19
Oklahoma City, OK
Saturday Night Party
2027-07-03
Oklahoma City, OK
23rd Annual Oklahoma City Pool Party
2027-07-11
Oklahoma City, OK
Saturday Night Party
2027-07-31
Oklahoma City, OK
Dungeons & kink venues
Oklahoma Power Exchange
BDSM DungeonOklahoma City metro, OK
18+ private BDSM and power-exchange community in the Oklahoma City area with a member dungeon, mandatory vetting and membership paths, recurring play parties and midweek dungeon nights, Ticketleap registration, and published guest and non-discrimination policies.