Men's fantasy lists in magazines jump from sports to threesomes to movies. The threesome line is the one that collides with real events.
What the research is about
Sex and Psychology published a top-ten of men's fantasies. Most of it is not a dungeon topic. The group-sex part is.
Source: A Top Ten List of Men’s Sexual Fantasies: Football, Threesomes, Star Wars and More, Sex and Psychology, March 30,
- Figures, samples, and methods are on that page.
How this shows up in public play
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A fantasy list is not a plan for the people you date.
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Threesomes need two yeses besides yours.
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A kink weekend is a scheduled event, not a montage.
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Pick a workshop if you want to learn. Pick a party only after you have read the rules.