People write in because they want non-monogamy and do not know where to say so. An event can be one place. It is not a trap for people who did not agree.
What the research is about
Sex and Psychology answers how to find someone who wants the same relationship shape.
Source: Sex Question Friday: I Want A Non-Monogamous Relationship. How Do I Find Someone Who Wants The Same Thing?, Sex and Psychology, December 21,
- Figures, samples, and methods are on that page.
How this shows up in public play
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Say it early, in plain words, before feelings are tangled.
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A dungeon is a poor first disclosure if your date thought the night was exclusive.
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Use community socials and explicit listings more than hints.
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No from one person is not a search you continue on their friends.