Fantasies of being forced are common in research. They are not a yes. Consensual non-consent is a negotiated script between people who can stop it.
What the research is about
Sex and Psychology explains why these fantasies show up. This page is the boundary for real life.
Source: Fantasies About Being ‘Forced’ To Have Sex Are Common, Here’s Why, Sex and Psychology, March 9,
- Figures, samples, and methods are on that page.
How this shows up in public play
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A fantasy of force is not a request to be forced.
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CNC needs a prior talk, a stop word, and sober agreement.
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Do not spring a force scene on someone at a party.
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If you cannot tell fantasy from a real no, do not play.