Cuckolding, in the kink sense, is a watched encounter that the people involved have agreed to. Without that agreement it is just a betrayal.
What the research is about
Sex and Psychology looks at the psychology of this fantasy and practice.
Source: Women Who Sleep With Other Men While Their Husbands Watch: The Psychology of Cuckolding, Sex and Psychology, July 10,
- Figures, samples, and methods are on that page.
How this shows up in public play
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Name who watches, who plays, and who can stop it.
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Safer-sex rules are part of the negotiation.
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A swinger party and a cuckold scene are not automatic matches.
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Do not recruit strangers off the floor for a partner who is not there.