People show up for sadism and masochism for more than one reason. A venue does not need your reason. It needs your agreement and your skill.
What the research is about
Sex and Psychology outlines three reasons researchers discuss. The article is the source for those reasons.
Source: 3 Reasons People Engage in Sexual Sadism and Masochism, Sex and Psychology, August 7,
- Figures, samples, and methods are on that page.
How this shows up in public play
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Motive does not replace a safeword.
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Sadism without a willing partner is not a kink scene.
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Masochism still has injury limits. Agree on marks, time, and aftercare.
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If you are new, watch a demo before you ask to be hit.